Unsupportive Bf...
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my bro's friend just gave me dis advice...Originally posted by shan_cai:Like i said loh... I gave in again...
for you my dear
dun ruled over by ur emotions, gif urself some rooms alone to think...
Accept him, but not expecting him
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Precisely... Tatz y i scared always gif in 2 him wil spoil him n he wil respect mi lesser... But no choice. He wont budge if i dun gif in...Originally posted by choco B:IMO give in too many times and you'll get less and less respect from him . -
Ya thks... I noe tat... Haiz~Originally posted by IamAngeline:my bro's friend just gave me dis advice...
for you my dear
dun ruled over by ur emotions, gif urself some rooms alone to think...
Accept him, but not expecting him 
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majority of the guys can only be troubled by 2 things...money and/or woman...
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dun haiz... live happierOriginally posted by shan_cai:Ya thks... I noe tat... Haiz~ -
Originally posted by shan_cai:Hmmm~ I get wat u mean... U truly understand wats goin on between us, not as in detail but as in e general part...
Of course i wanna continue dis relationship lah! But smtimes conflicts r inevitable... N we're tryin hard 2 build up our communication system... Real bad...
Pray for serenity to accept the things that cannot be changed...
Courage to change things that you can...
And the wisdom to know the difference.
P.S: AA is always open and so is my PM.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
can send advertisement through your pm? Pray for serenity to accept the things that cannot be changed...
Courage to change things that you can...
[b]And the wisdom to know the difference.
P.S: AA is always open and so is my PM.
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i tink this kinda ting better dn post in forum sort it outside
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different people different opinion
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wanna post oso dont use your own nick. reserve privacy for both parties.
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Modelling...?Originally posted by shan_cai:Wah lao... Im at his hse. Wat i wear he can c mah... Juz casual dressin loh, photo shoot my face, not BODY.
Den put in website so if we got clients wanna look 2 models 4 ads or wat, can go website view who they wan.
Some teletubbies suits modelling?
Pinky-Winky, Dipsy, Lala, Po~~~ -
teleubbies... lolz...Originally posted by Bontakun:Modelling...?
Some teletubbies suits modelling?
Pinky-Winky, Dipsy, Lala, Po~~~
now no more showing on kids central liao -
Which oso means, TIME. Give U both time & space. In da mean time... Did U used da coupon...? If haven use it to VENT out bah! Valid til June 30. Remember hor...Originally posted by IamAngeline:my bro's friend just gave me dis advice...
for you my dear
dun ruled over by ur emotions, gif urself some rooms alone to think...
Accept him, but not expecting him -
Got Barney hor......Originally posted by SGpork:teleubbies... lolz... now no more showing on kids central liao -
yeah purple dinosaure i watch with my little cousin...Originally posted by Bontakun:Got Barney hor......
Hi5 also nice
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sry..out of point liao...
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wah this thread still alive..
can close liow lar.. no point keep reminding urself of this. -
hmm.. i know i'm not one of the best person to talk abt relationships ba..
well.. i think its a nice thing that u gave in to him.. but from a guy's point of view.. i tink i oso wun like my girl going for photoshoot and other people gawking at a beautiful girl like yourself and probably jerking off to your pics. there are that kind of ppl la.
i presume he is in the army? if he is, maybe he is facing some insecurity, most guys in army feel tt way.
i dunno.. all i want to say is, thank you for giving in, u're a nice person.
from xiao di di dumbdumb -
Hmmm...
Sorry girl,
so late then read this thread...
it's too long and I'm kinda lazy to read thru the whole thread..
But still I will post for you okie?
dun sad..
As I always said, it's my view, and next you have to b cleared that no one affects any of your decision making between u n mito.
I dunno what's is the actual situation that makes him get upset by ur photo shooting session,
just need to ask is this those makeover studios u are going or someother where? like friends engaging you for help for some shots?
In anyway, you mentioned that he said that it's INDECENT. have you tried asking him y he thinks so?
As a lady I'm not in a exact situation how will a bf think of gf going for this, but from my bf's view, he feels okie abt me going for some make over. But diff ppl hab diff views, so you need to find out the reason y mito will think so.
I know it's been tiring for you, as you've been feeling you are giving in too much to mito and instead he is sort of 'mistreating' u from what you expect from him.
But dear girl, it's okie to have expectation in a r.s for not wise to forced it to happen. If mito's has all along been like that, y not try to accept instead of changing him if it has been so hard?
I believe mito has his gd points too rite? and that's what attracts you to him. No one is perfect, just like our ten fingers, they have never been equal in length..
this is only a small matter, if he dun like it, and you are sensitive to his feelings, instead of making yourself angry that he's not supportive, you can try the softer approach of delaying it, or talk him out 1st b4 you keep insisting on going and let dis tied a dead knot in both of ur hearts.
Give urself some faith and give him some too. Both of you needs communication.
Most impt, I need to remind you again, mito is a regular, so he may be more temperamental compared to times when u n him are still in school, and also, you are in the working class now, so things will be a lot diff when comes to this level in your life.
It may b tough, but if you love him n he loves you, y not put in more effort to show ur love instead of squabbling everyday, just to prove who loves who more, who cares for who more?
I dunno if mito will read dis, but shan_cai dear, I may not write as well as Yunhaier, or even able to relieve u betta, still I hope my advise can help u sort out ur emotions.
Life is so fragile, cherish ur moments, be glad that you have each other, be glad that you are in loved, for some that may not have the chance or the ability to be like us.
Anything, girl reach me at my mobile. -
No outta pt, Porkie.Originally posted by SGpork:sry..out of point liao...
Hi5...? Dats old... but da gals have quite nice figure... XD~~~ -
No finger is perfect. not even my middle fingers, but they look da same when I flash them out!Originally posted by IamAngeline:Hmmm...
Sorry girl,
so late then read this thread...
it's too long and I'm kinda lazy to read thru the whole thread..
But still I will post for you okie?
dun sad..
As I always said, it's my view, and next you have to b cleared that no one affects any of your decision making between u n mito.
I dunno what's is the actual situation that makes him get upset by ur photo shooting session,
just need to ask is this those makeover studios u are going or someother where? like friends engaging you for help for some shots?
In anyway, you mentioned that he said that it's INDECENT. have you tried asking him y he thinks so?
As a lady I'm not in a exact situation how will a bf think of gf going for this, but from my bf's view, he feels okie abt me going for some make over. But diff ppl hab diff views, so you need to find out the reason y mito will think so.
I know it's been tiring for you, as you've been feeling you are giving in too much to mito and instead he is sort of 'mistreating' u from what you expect from him.
But dear girl, it's okie to have expectation in a r.s for not wise to forced it to happen. If mito's has all along been like that, y not try to accept instead of changing him if it has been so hard?
I believe mito has his gd points too rite? and that's what attracts you to him. No one is perfect, just like our ten fingers, they have never been equal in length..
this is only a small matter, if he dun like it, and you are sensitive to his feelings, instead of making yourself angry that he's not supportive, you can try the softer approach of delaying it, or talk him out 1st b4 you keep insisting on going and let dis tied a dead knot in both of ur hearts.
Give urself some faith and give him some too. Both of you needs communication.
Most impt, I need to remind you again, mito is a regular, so he may be more temperamental compared to times when u n him are still in school, and also, you are in the working class now, so things will be a lot diff when comes to this level in your life.
It may b tough, but if you love him n he loves you, y not put in more effort to show ur love instead of squabbling everyday, just to prove who loves who more, who cares for who more?
I dunno if mito will read dis, but shan_cai dear, I may not write as well as Yunhaier, or even able to relieve u betta, still I hope my advise can help u sort out ur emotions.
Life is so fragile, cherish ur moments, be glad that you have each other, be glad that you are in loved, for some that may not have the chance or the ability to be like us.
Anything, girl reach me at my mobile.
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FYI, itz TINKY-WINKY.Originally posted by Bontakun:Modelling...?
Some teletubbies suits modelling?
Pinky-Winky, Dipsy, Lala, Po~~~
N itz not any teletubbies siut loh... -_-" -
I already used it liao... Tat day juz used, went wif him. Dun say liao lah, mi got so fed up. E coupon say itz prior 2 bookin, but i called e num stated called like hell oso no ppl ans... Mi sianz 1/2 tel my hubby better we go down there n i scold them 2 vent my frustration. Coz we're already in town den tot maybe use tat free coupon loh.Originally posted by Bontakun:Which oso means, TIME. Give U both time & space. In da mean time... Did U used da coupon...? If haven use it to VENT out bah! Valid til June 30. Remember hor...
Den now i got a new coupon wif expiry 15 Jul... -
He's a regular in SCDF now... Thks, we're alrite now.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm.. i know i'm not one of the best person to talk abt relationships ba..
well.. i think its a nice thing that u gave in to him.. but from a guy's point of view.. i tink i oso wun like my girl going for photoshoot and other people gawking at a beautiful girl like yourself and probably jerking off to your pics. there are that kind of ppl la.
i presume he is in the army? if he is, maybe he is facing some insecurity, most guys in army feel tt way.
i dunno.. all i want to say is, thank you for giving in, u're a nice person.
from xiao di di dumbdumb