Guys like to lie for each other.
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nod. after all, its their problem. to be more precise, its a problem between they two.Originally posted by IamAngeline:best is to dun interfere especially r/s.
Give a listening ear is the best help to provide a fren that's my point
if they always need a third party as a proxy, its not gotta lasts anyway.
unless we are talking about exposing a swindler lar. -
At least they dun "lie" with each other...... ohmigod...*yucks*
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Originally posted by www:
Correct 5^ we got the same idea
nod. after all, its their problem. to be more precise, its a problem between [b]they two.
if they always need a third party as a proxy, its not gotta lasts anyway.
unless we are talking about exposing a swindler lar.[/b]
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But by saying no comment and nothing else, you're indirectly covering for your friend since you know the truth but you're withholding the truth! Essentially doing a cover up and keeping a secret!Originally posted by IamAngeline:I dun have to care if the person is gonna look at me weird. When I say no comments, does it really have ta mean I know something?
Just like when u dunno something in school, teacher ask for volunteers to ans. U dunno the ans, there will definitely be ppl who rather keep quiet than telling out loud to the teacher they dunno.
So never speak-> no comments-> does it really implies u know something?
Unsure/ sure-> when I say no comments-> I dun wish to interfere even though I know or dunno.
This is my point.
This topic is gonna be another war for girls n boys
BINGO! -
^^^^^^^^^^^^^5Originally posted by IamAngeline:Correct 5^ we got the same idea 
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U always dun seems to understand my wordsOriginally posted by :But by saying no comment and nothing else, you're indirectly covering for your friend since you know the truth but you're withholding the truth! Essentially doing a cover up and keeping a secret!
BINGO!
Guess my English not "powderful" enuff..
nvm lah.. www has got my point -
Point is, you're not interfering, its usually the gf who comes running to you asking you for the truth... but the simple thing is, she can't handle the truth! keke...Originally posted by IamAngeline:best is to dun interfere especially r/s.
Give a listening ear is the best help to provide a fren that's my point -
i wont lie to ppl tat shan cai go dating wit me
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Yes thats the honest truth... I can vouch for Ah Ma. I saw them together at some undisclosed location, making weird noises!Originally posted by Ah Ma:i wont lie to ppl tat shan cai go dating wit me -
aiyah........ look at it this way..
the way guys think... if its his fren(guy) that lets his gf noe that he is seeing another gal.. the guy would think that his fren is after his gf... i'm sure it works in a similar fashion with girls rite? so its really a no brainer that guys will help their frens with everything bar the really serious ones... besides some dumb ones that help one another get away with murder( not actual murder but something serious
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my point is... its ok to help. of coz u need to trust the person to a certain extent to help... but its help nonetheless. this is bred in most guys that have gone thru NS (ah guas and chao kengs need not apply) so those who have not gone thru it.. dun say u noe it and pass judgement when u do not noe how "frenship between guys" work.
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magazines r sometimes full of shit (read tabloids). Sometimes. Take everything with a pinch of salt. dun "WAH magazine say like that confirm is like that liao". Pretty naive of u.
One last thing. even 99.9% does not mean ALL. Surely u have been taught better than that.
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i think its only our responsibility to keep our relationship clear from anything. as in, if we put in an effort, we wun need anyone to come in to clear things up. tat goes down to respect and trust
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You keep talking alot about respect... what respect does your guy give you?Originally posted by JeweL81:i think its only our responsibility to keep our relationship clear from anything. as in, if we put in an effort, we wun need anyone to come in to clear things up. tat goes down to respect and trust -
If i find out, i will probably talk to him first and talk sense with him and ask him to make a choice instead of hurting one or both of the girls he is with.. i wont cover up for him if the gf ask but I won't deliberately tell his gf either.. unless the guy is really incorrigble and then maybe i may hint to the girl in some way..Originally posted by shan_cai:I read dis in Cleo magazine... Find it quite true.
Oso dunno y they like 2 help cover each other's butt...
Guys would u lie 4 ur buddy, like if he outside got another ger when he's already attached; n u came 2 noe abt it. Wil u tel e truth if his gf asks? Or u'll help him lie 2 his gf? -
actualy sometimes dn lie is nt gd aso...lie will be better depends on wat ting....
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huh?Originally posted by :You keep talking alot about respect... what respect does your guy give you?
i just think it is important -
Thats a pretty good approach... one which lotsa girls take...Originally posted by Ecxentrique:If i find out, i will probably talk to him first and talk sense with him and ask him to make a choice instead of hurting one or both of the girls he is with.. i wont cover up for him if the gf ask but I won't deliberately tell his gf either.. unless the guy is really incorrigble and then maybe i may hint to the girl in some way.. -
a politically correct version of lying is "half truth"
honestly, i'll cover for my buddy. it's just one of those guy things ........ among others -
Originally posted by www:
but if say the girl is also a friend to you and you know she is very nice but her bf (also your friend) betrayed her..and seeing someone behind her back..
nod. after all, its their problem. to be more precise, its a problem between [b]they two.
if they always need a third party as a proxy, its not gotta lasts anyway.
unless we are talking about exposing a swindler lar.[/b]
basically its swindling but its swindling with pple's feelings. ultimately i will feel very not at ease if i am given the opporunity to make things better and yet not act on it.. not that i find glory in doing such things but maybe down the road i will not regret as much..
of course, the best thing is to hope for things don't take a turn for such a worst case scenario.. -
In such a scenario, I prefer to avoid both parties!!! Haha... too messy! I prefer to act blur blur...
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I'd lie for my good friend, no questions asked. And this applies to male and female buddies so gender is not the issue.
Of course there are limitations like is he doing something unlawful or harmful, but by and large for romantic matters, I stick by him.
Being a friend is unconditional. It comes way before love and partners. His welfare comes first. And if he feels he needs my support, hey that's what friends are for. -
Ns is ns... Now im tokin abt as in a relationship. Dun keep rubbin in e ns thingy. If tat fren who caught u wif another ger is diff batch fr u? U stil wanna use e ns example meh?Originally posted by :Hiakz... you dun understand the buddy system in NS during BMT very important wan! haha...
Well, its best not to lie but, if your buddy wants you to tell a white lie, you should try your best right? -
Oso muz c y she wanna two-time... If tat guy is reali a bast*rd den y shd i help him? If i noe tat guy too as a mutual fren, n he's reali swt bf, i'll hint him loh... At e risk of losin my fren... But wil oso tok 2 her abt it...Originally posted by www:so i guess if u find out that your best friend is two-timing her bf, u will let her bf knows about it? -
Izit...Originally posted by JeweL81:oh i do that often
I dun lie 4 my fren n she oso dun lie 4 mi...
Coz we haf nothin 2 cover n lie abt... I dun tink there's a need loh...
Y do smthin wrong 2 ur bf n den cover dis n tat? Better not do it in e 1st place. -
guess wat.. the guys are doing the same too.Originally posted by shan_cai:Oso muz c y she wanna two-time... If tat guy is reali a bast*rd den y shd i help him? If i noe tat guy too as a mutual fren, n he's reali swt bf, i'll hint him loh... At e risk of losin my fren... But wil oso tok 2 her abt it...
we dont really help each other that blindly. -
Agreed.Originally posted by JeweL81:I only respect my partner if he gives me the respect i deserve.