I'm so tired...
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Guys and gals R diff ma....
Gals expect their guys to know this know dat.
If U never tell him how U feel he wont noe one.
Its might not be he is not sensitive......
Jus that he duno how U feels also ma.....cant expect him to think wat U think rite?
Tok it over.... I find dat gals tend to feel dat the guy they love mus really understnd them 100% one...if not say they not sensitive. At most i think can reach is 70%.....coz he is a guy not gal...so he think like guy. Dats why they operates differently N think diff ma. -
Okie la my theory againOriginally posted by shan_cai:I dun mind always givin in... Ya, i oso scared he'll take it 4 granted instead of appreciatin...
Smtimes i reali hope he'll take e initiative 2 do things 2 brighten up our relationship, u noe? I dunwanna make dis relationship dead n dull. I wanna improve... So tat boh of us wont b tired of dis r/s.
But cant possibly always b mi who take e initiative rite... He oso muz zhu dong wat... Both of us gotta haf our fair share of givin n takin mah...
Nu Ren Tian Shen Ming Jian
Nan Ren Tian Shen Fan Jian
U hope he will take initiative. But the fact is I THINK lah.. he is too used to ur initiative instead, so becum-> he can't be bothered. Afterall, you will take initiative to sort everything out right?
Basically the above situation happens when U are the one who afraid that this r/s wun works which MAY implies you love him more then he loves you. Sorry girl, I may sound crude. But usually this is the fact.
But dun mind I ask, what are u suspecting him hiding from ya? -
Although it sounds bad..Originally posted by :To tell you simply and put it striaghtforward, when a guy can't be bother with his gf.... he has lost interest in his gf.
Plain and simple.
But I agree with u. It's a fact -
He's not hidin anythin fr mi at e moment. But im juz afraid, coz of e shadow he left last time. His reason was, he rather hide fr mi than 2 let mi noe as i'll get angry. But wont it b worse if i found out on my own n flare up?
But now i trust him coz he promised 2 b truthful 2 mi... -
okie so what he had done make u so flare up?Originally posted by shan_cai:He's not hidin anythin fr mi at e moment. But im juz afraid, coz of e shadow he left last time. His reason was, he rather hide fr mi than 2 let mi noe as i'll get angry. But wont it b worse if i found out on my own n flare up?
But now i trust him coz he promised 2 b truthful 2 mi... -
Frankly speakin, i dunwanna tink so much liao... Gif myself more fear n probs onli... Im tired.
My onli wish now is as long as we're together happily, he can do his part as a gd bf n dun do things 2 betray mi can liao... -
Angie later aft i eat liao den call u k?
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He didnt do anythin 2 make mi flare up... Juz tat i did some soul searchin n tot of alot of things... Gd n bad...Originally posted by IamAngeline:okie so what he had done make u so flare up? -
Tatz my greatest fear...Originally posted by :To tell you simply and put it striaghtforward, when a guy can't be bother with his gf.... he has lost interest in his gf.
Plain and simple.
Hope tatz not e case... -
okie!Originally posted by shan_cai:Angie later aft i eat liao den call u k?
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orh~~~Originally posted by shan_cai:He didnt do anythin 2 make mi flare up... Juz tat i did some soul searchin n tot of alot of things... Gd n bad...
/me sayang shan_cai
Dun think so much okie??
try to think positive
it will be a healthier choice than to make urself feel tired -
Hope he can realise tat im tryin v hard 2 b a better n understandin gf...
I wil put in more effort 2 make him appreciate everythin i do 4 him... I reali do hope he cherish mi... Hope he reali understands wat im tryin 2 say... -
Am sorry but if a guy really does care for his gf, he would at least show some concern...Originally posted by shan_cai:Tatz my greatest fear...
Hope tatz not e case...
but when he can't be bother and finds you annoying and ask you to stop bothering him with so many questions...
then, you know he's bored with you... and will look for someone new! -
Dun worry he will understand de..
Maintain it like I do okie?
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Now one thing im confident of is tat i stil love him v much. I do dare 2 say tat i love him wholeheartedly...
Im v serious abt dis relationship...
Zhi yao ta neng gan jue dao wo de zhen xin, wo jiu xin man yi zu le... -
Dun worry, the road is still long.
DO ur best, and no regrets for everything done..
He will know how a precious darling you are -
I hope his actions is due 2 he's tired coz of his work, not mi... He's not gd at expressin himself -- one of his characteristic. But doesnt mean he can dun care abt mi rite...Originally posted by :Am sorry but if a guy really does care for his gf, he would at least show some concern...
but when he can't be bother and finds you annoying and ask you to stop bothering him with so many questions...
then, you know he's bored with you... and will look for someone new!
Action speaks louder than words... -
I reali envy u n ur bf... But rest assured i wont juz envy, i'll do things 2 achieve it too...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Dun worry he will understand de..
Maintain it like I do okie? -
Yes actions does speak louder than words...Originally posted by shan_cai:I hope his actions is due 2 he's tired coz of his work, not mi... He's not gd at expressin himself -- one of his characteristic. But doesnt mean he can dun care abt mi rite...
Action speaks louder than words...
Its also true that generally after a while in a relationship, couples tend to get bored with each other. But, if the couple does not develop the longing for each other even though their passion for each other has died. Then, the couple will start to drift and find someone that sparks their heart... -
Ya that's the way..
my bf and i also have problems de. just that we settle it in the more peaceful way loH~
when u been thru arguments u will know how to handle it after many occasions -
Am curious? What do you do to maintain your relationship?Originally posted by IamAngeline:Dun worry he will understand de..
Maintain it like I do okie? -
Ehh can describe de meh??Originally posted by :Am curious? What do you do to maintain your relationship?
too many things liaoz lah
summary is give n take -
Thats a really short summary... give n take...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Ehh can describe de meh??
too many things liaoz lah
summary is give n take
Kan beeee aaaa biiiittttt mmmmoorreeeee elaborate? -
He loves soccer, I know nothing abt soccer-> I learn.Originally posted by :Thats a really short summary... give n take...
Kan beeee aaaa biiiittttt mmmmoorreeeee elaborate?
He loves mahjong, I know nothing abt mahjong -> I learn.
I love historical shows, he dun understand -> he accompany me to watch it (although he fell asleep).
He dun like my friends, he learn to accept the way they are.
We argue-> but will never brought it up again after everything
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in a r/s,there will be times when u urself sit dwn n think of the happiness n unhappiness u had wif him..when u think of the unhappiness,u will think of wat he did in the past...y not for now,4get the past n live happily wif each other...if u kip thinking of the bad points n become negative,things will get worse...indeed sonetimes we will get tired of keeping thinking of wat our future will be 2gether,n get tired of all the quarrelling,but all these r juz a moment of thinking...find things 2 do n go out wif yr frens?maybe things will get better or sit dwn n tok wif yr bf nicely n tell him how he feels?i understand how u feels,for i myself like u likes 2 think 2 much aso...but for the moment juz try 2 4get abt the past,,i noe it's not easy,but if u r not going 2 try,maintaing the r/s will be more difficult than forgetting it....
all the best n gd luck....