I'm so tired...
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How do i maintain a healthy relationship despite all e trust i gave him? Im tired of worryin dis n tat everyday... Im tryin v hard not 2 take things so hard liao...
But im afraid i'll b e one who gets hurt deeply in e end... Hope he can continue 2 gain my trust... I reali do hope 2 keep dis relationship goin on for e next 5 yrs, 10 yrs, 20 yrs n so on... til we're old...
Smtimes i reali need someone 2 tok 2... Im reali at a loss now... Am i makin e rite choice? Or izit a wrong decision? I reali dunwanna tink abt it liao... -
Am i givin myself too much stress on dis relationship...
Am i askin too much fr dis relationship...
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dear Shan_cai
u have mi here to talk if u wan
/mi sayang shan_cai
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shan cai u can tok to me
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^Evidence!Originally posted by sgboy2004:dear Shan_cai
u have mi here to talk if u wan
/mi sayang shan_cai
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I am Croco, Croco am I
See sgboy is being so nice and caring here... he has changed from his buaya ways! -
mi a lamb in crocodile skin mahOriginally posted by :^Evidence!
See sgboy is being so nice and caring here... he has changed from his buaya ways!
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I juz hope he can b more tactful n more xi xin towards mi...
Izit v hard 2 do tat? -
it may b u expecting more frm him...y nt u put urself in his shoes n tink ? i aso dono leh..i tink if a couple together is happy gd liao if expect more will turn out more quarrels 1Originally posted by shan_cai:I juz hope he can b more tactful n more xi xin towards mi...
Izit v hard 2 do tat? -
well. not all guys r as sensitive as gals would like them to be.Originally posted by shan_cai:I juz hope he can b more tactful n more xi xin towards mi...
Izit v hard 2 do tat? -
I like e way he treated mi when we started bein together...
He's so swt n carin bk den... How i miss e old him... -
people change...the only constant in tis world is change...Originally posted by shan_cai:I juz hope he can b more tactful n more xi xin towards mi...
Izit v hard 2 do tat?
dun expect to be at the honeymoon stage of a relationship forever...
u see....croco can change too... from worst ... to worse...to bad...to good...
Sad to say, people start to cherish when they are losing or about to lose it...
Girl, at times, look at oneself too...ask if your demands are being practical or overboard... it may not seem to u...
When time passes... a relationship changes ... for better or for worse... it the creation of the 2 person...
Mi wish u good... mi can be good lover tooo
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When you're in the relationship, you would tend to think more irrationally. Sometimes, its good to talk to other people who can help you rational whether what you're doing in the relationship is correct or wrong. But, the best is to always talk to your partner letting each other know how each feels about the other.Originally posted by shan_cai:How do i maintain a healthy relationship despite all e trust i gave him? Im tired of worryin dis n tat everyday... Im tryin v hard not 2 take things so hard liao...
But im afraid i'll b e one who gets hurt deeply in e end... Hope he can continue 2 gain my trust... I reali do hope 2 keep dis relationship goin on for e next 5 yrs, 10 yrs, 20 yrs n so on... til we're old...
Smtimes i reali need someone 2 tok 2... Im reali at a loss now... Am i makin e rite choice? Or izit a wrong decision? I reali dunwanna tink abt it liao...
An open relationship is one where there are no secrets kept, is a relationship built on trust and mutual understanding of one another. -
Sad to say, people start to cherish when they are losing or about to lose it... "
ya lor wait till lose it thn regret too late
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U okie???Originally posted by shan_cai:How do i maintain a healthy relationship despite all e trust i gave him? Im tired of worryin dis n tat everyday... Im tryin v hard not 2 take things so hard liao...
But im afraid i'll b e one who gets hurt deeply in e end... Hope he can continue 2 gain my trust... I reali do hope 2 keep dis relationship goin on for e next 5 yrs, 10 yrs, 20 yrs n so on... til we're old...
Smtimes i reali need someone 2 tok 2... Im reali at a loss now... Am i makin e rite choice? Or izit a wrong decision? I reali dunwanna tink abt it liao...
Need someone to tok?? -
But tatz wat a bf shd b wat... a v basic requirement of a bf. Not expectin much fr him... If he doesnt even care abt mi or wat, den y shd i b wif him...Originally posted by Ah Ma:it may b u expecting more frm him...y nt u put urself in his shoes n tink ? i aso dono leh..i tink if a couple together is happy gd liao if expect more will turn out more quarrels 1 -
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But i feel tat he's far too insensitive liao... Reali... Maybe he's juz liddat loh. I've 2 learn 2 accept him liddat. But i dun reali like tat...Originally posted by wuming78:well. not all guys r as sensitive as gals would like them to be. -
Im afraid he may haf e tendency 2 hide smthin fr mi... Given his character... But i truly trust him, tats y always scared he wil abuse my trust 4 him...Originally posted by :When you're in the relationship, you would tend to think more irrationally. Sometimes, its good to talk to other people who can help you rational whether what you're doing in the relationship is correct or wrong. But, the best is to always talk to your partner letting each other know how each feels about the other.
An open relationship is one where there are no secrets kept, is a relationship built on trust and mutual understanding of one another. -
i think guys 80% are insensitive one...mayb some at first honey moon period will only lar...u gt tok to him abt hw u tink?Originally posted by shan_cai:But tatz wat a bf shd b wat... a v basic requirement of a bf. Not expectin much fr him... If he doesnt even care abt mi or wat, den y shd i b wif him... -
Angie can tok on phone?Originally posted by IamAngeline:U okie???
Need someone to tok?? -
Girl..
Like I've told you before. Maintaining a r/s is easy especially it's thru years.
Is it that you are finding yourself back to the time when U ever felt most helpless??
You been with him for years. Perhaps he changed. Or perhaps U've changed. He have signed on. You have started working. Tots changed. Concepts also changed.
Time for the r/s to grow may have shorten. I dunno what he had done this time round. Perhaps it's the same old mistake he ever made. You feel tired cos you find him repeating the same mistake again even though U've tried effort to correct him. The effort you spent is a thing. Whether he will learn and change is another thing.
Love him? Perhaps continuing to give. But the more you give, the more he takes u for granted.
So first you must know where the problem lies, who, when and what.. try ways to find the best solutions. If you love him as much as you tot, you will do it. -
Ya call me ba~Originally posted by shan_cai:Angie can tok on phone? -
Got tok 2 him abt how i feel liao. But smtimes i feel tat he's not interested in listenin... Or dunno izit he cant b bothered...Originally posted by Ah Ma:i think guys 80% are insensitive one...mayb some at first honey moon period will only lar...u gt tok to him abt hw u tink? -
I dun mind always givin in... Ya, i oso scared he'll take it 4 granted instead of appreciatin...
Smtimes i reali hope he'll take e initiative 2 do things 2 brighten up our relationship, u noe? I dunwanna make dis relationship dead n dull. I wanna improve... So tat boh of us wont b tired of dis r/s.
But cant possibly always b mi who take e initiative rite... He oso muz zhu dong wat... Both of us gotta haf our fair share of givin n takin mah... -
To tell you simply and put it striaghtforward, when a guy can't be bother with his gf.... he has lost interest in his gf.Originally posted by shan_cai:Got tok 2 him abt how i feel liao. But smtimes i feel tat he's not interested in listenin... Or dunno izit he cant b bothered...
Plain and simple.