I feel so fcucked up now...
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DUmp him ..... go for Man whom are in their prime ie 30 plus.... they are more stable, has more $$$ and ready to settle down !
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I already v tolerant liao. I haf my limits too. Im tryin my v best not 2 start a quarrel liao. Tats wat i promised him, n wat im tryin hard 2 do now.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:I think u need to cool down liao....it will not do good for the both of u... -
Your BF from SCDF rite?Originally posted by shan_cai:Now not i dunwanna tok, itz HE bochap. He dunwanna tok things out or mend things up, i oso LL. -
Yes.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Your BF from SCDF rite? -
I simply love him too much 2 dump him...Originally posted by stoner:DUmp him ..... go for Man whom are in their prime ie 30 plus.... they are more stable, has more $$$ and ready to settle down ! -
then cool down 1st then talk loh.... now both so hot hard to talk oso lah......
i donno u all 2gether how long liao lah.... but since wanna b 2gether.... muz have mutual understand n trust is very impt de loh.....
anything not happy with each other muz say out then can change or solve mah.... if diam diam or juz quarrel no solve cannot oso mah -
Could it be he face frustrations from his superior? any signs of his odd behaviour b4 or when he joined SCDFOriginally posted by shan_cai:Yes. -
I simply love him too much 2 dump him...Originally posted by stoner:DUmp him ..... go for Man whom are in their prime ie 30 plus.... they are more stable, has more $$$ and ready to settle down ! -
No. U dunno wat happen lah. Itz not tat.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Could it be he face frustrations from his superior? any signs of his odd behaviour b4 or when he joined SCDF -
OhOriginally posted by shan_cai:I simply love him too much 2 dump him...
he should be so lucky to have u as a gf oh god why is heaven toying the 2 of u. Oh my lord pls answer thier prayers... -
.......hmmm.................take it easy. Cool down first and settle it when only he feel like he is able to sit down and talk with you. If not I think you only get more upset 
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shan cai, I dunno what's going on with you and your bf, so I shall not comment anything. Cool down, there's always be a solution.
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Ah girl ar~~ what happen?
Slowly tok to him...
dun flare up~~ -
how u feeling better now?
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Angie... Everythin's fine liao... We spend e whole nite tokin things out... But in e midst of tokin, we nearly break...Originally posted by IamAngeline:Ah girl ar~~ what happen?
Slowly tok to him...
dun flare up~~
Juz hope there wont b a next time liddat again... I reali dun like 2 quarrel wif him, hope he reali does understand... Smtimes juz dunno wat he wans... I already given him everythin... Stil not enough meh. -
If onli he noes tat he's lucky...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Oh he should be so lucky to have u as a gf oh god why is heaven toying the 2 of u. Oh my lord pls answer thier prayers... -
Dis mth is reali not a gd mth 4 mi n my hubby... Dunno y...
Hope everythin wil go well til end of dis mth... -
huh.. u sure it's fine ar..Originally posted by shan_cai:Angie... Everythin's fine liao... We spend e whole nite tokin things out... But in e midst of tokin, we nearly break...
Juz hope there wont b a next time liddat again... I reali dun like 2 quarrel wif him, hope he reali does understand... Smtimes juz dunno wat he wans... I already given him everythin... Stil not enough meh.
dun break becos of arguments.. dun yi qi yong shi...
sometimes just tolerate a bit loh~~ give and take -
Yup, thks...Originally posted by HENG@:how u feeling better now?
Feelin better now, except 4 e puffy eyes. Last nite quarrel wif him den til 12:30am den had my dinner, n my last meal b4 tat was at 11+ in e mornin. Expected loh, my gastric pain came again... -
haiz bu yao sad lah~~~...Originally posted by shan_cai:Yup, thks...
Feelin better now, except 4 e puffy eyes. Last nite quarrel wif him den til 12:30am den had my dinner, n my last meal b4 tat was at 11+ in e mornin. Expected loh, my gastric pain came again...
I understand wat u have gone thru..
qi until never eat right...
u feeling betta? -
Angie... Im tryin my v best in dis relationship liao... Juz tat i dunno y we always quarrel dis few wks... Im tolerant but he's not. He's not like b4 liao... In e past i admit im always e one takin, but now im tryin my best 2 b balanced. I oso gif in liao... But he smtimes he dunwanna take i oso bopian...Originally posted by IamAngeline:huh.. u sure it's fine ar..
dun break becos of arguments.. dun yi qi yong shi...
sometimes just tolerate a bit loh~~ give and take -
Actuali wanted 2 haf a nice dinner wif him, but end up havin arguements... Til past midnite den eat loh. Now feelin better liao... Last nite i reali tired n like no energy 2 quarrel any further wif him liao...Originally posted by IamAngeline:haiz bu yao sad lah~~~...
I understand wat u have gone thru..
qi until never eat right...
u feeling betta? -
hmm dun mind telling me what's actually happen?(u can pm me)Originally posted by shan_cai:Angie... Im tryin my v best in dis relationship liao... Juz tat i dunno y we always quarrel dis few wks... Im tolerant but he's not. He's not like b4 liao... In e past i admit im always e one takin, but now im tryin my best 2 b balanced. I oso gif in liao... But he smtimes he dunwanna take i oso bopian...
Life during the army (especially for a regular) tend to get short-tempered..
and I admit that during my boy's ns life,
we both also had a lot of argument, we yesh like u, almost broke off, cos I just simply can't stand the attitude he is giving me...
To maintain a r/s especially when it involved NS, is rather tough but u know u love him, make him understand how much u have been giving in and let him know ur work lide aint as easy too..
wouldn't it be betta tis way? -
Itz actuali all abt trust n faith bah... I juz hope he wont abuse my trust 4 him n dun break promises again...Originally posted by IamAngeline:hmm dun mind telling me what's actually happen?(u can pm me)
Life during the army (especially for a regular) tend to get short-tempered..
and I admit that during my boy's ns life,
we both also had a lot of argument, we yesh like u, almost broke off, cos I just simply can't stand the attitude he is giving me...
To maintain a r/s especially when it involved NS, is rather tough but u know u love him, make him understand how much u have been giving in and let him know ur work lide aint as easy too..
wouldn't it be betta tis way? -
hmm.. maybe u try put in more trust loh~~Originally posted by shan_cai:Itz actuali all abt trust n faith bah... I juz hope he wont abuse my trust 4 him n dun break promises again...
see if things get betta?