Reali wanna noe how 'boyfrenz' in a relationship tinks...
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Nv reali explore thru my bf's mind, smtimes find it hard 2 noe watz he tinkin... Haiz.
Read a book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" but stil dun reali understand...
I noe dis topic is abit too subjective but all replies wil b greatly appreciated... -
aiyah ...i know its hard to understand dao ming si heart... but don worry ah ... you both will still lives happily ever after one~
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If u reali dun understand him,try asking....its better to ask then to keep wondering and make some wrong guesses..might do harm to yr relationship...Aiyah,daomingsi where got easy to capture his mind de?
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Ya lor..but i pass the ring to lilogirl liao..shit.....give u this one firstOriginally posted by Transmission:aiyah ...i know its hard to understand dao ming si heart... but don worry ah ... you both will still lives happily ever after one~ -
Im tinkin it as v seriously loh...Originally posted by Transmission:aiyah ...i know its hard to understand dao ming si heart... but don worry ah ... you both will still lives happily ever after one~
In order 2 make our relationship work out i haf 2 understand him.
...N im tryin hard now... -
Eh,i got back the ring le...take one of it and give the other to yr bf...then u guys love will nvr end...trust me...hee..
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Opps... forgot not every topic can crap one ...Originally posted by shan_cai:Im tinkin it as v seriously loh...
In order 2 make our relationship work out i haf 2 understand him.
...N im tryin hard now...
solli ah ..
Well, I guess that in every relationships there are ups and downs. Only through experiencing all these, you can then understand him better. Simply by talking together helps, but not as powerful as going through those periods.
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Wat i read fr tat book says tat guys haf their own way of tinkin... Better not ask so much loh, in case he finds it irritatin or wat. I oso dunwanna make him feel as if im interogatin him.Originally posted by evererin:If u reali dun understand him,try asking....its better to ask then to keep wondering and make some wrong guesses..might do harm to yr relationship...Aiyah,daomingsi where got easy to capture his mind de?
Best is 2 slowly understand him in e midst of our relationship loh.
Aiyah... Guys r liddat one loh. Wat they tinkin in their mind they wont let us noe. So no pt keep askin him too... If he reali wanna say he wil auto tok 2 u one loh... Tatz my pt of view loh...
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Me also forget,cannot crap anyhow de..sori too...Originally posted by Transmission:Opps... forgot not every topic can crap one ...
solli ah ..
Well, I guess that in every relationships there are ups and downs. Only through experiencing all these, you can then understand him better. Simply by talking together helps, but not as powerful as going through those periods.
Just my 1 cents worth...
To me,i feel tat relationship is abt give n take de lor.U must give him,he must also take(and vice versa) from you in order to maintain...Starting a relationship is easy..maintaining is hard.Try to understand him more by asking out the uncertainity...Dun just keep thinking by yrself...It maybe tat he dun udnerstand u too...So its better to speak out the things that u want and wat the things that he wan....Dun keep doubting...Doubtin makes a relationship worsen...So just keep asking lor...Learn together as u ask n give answers....yr relationship will last lor....
Me dunno if it sounds like crap to u..but no choice...tats my own thinkin lor..but dun trust me too much..Me only been in love once..and it was terrible...so..er....oh well...its due to the fact that i dun ask n she dun ask too...sigh -
Wat ring? E pair of meteor rings? Lost n found again...Originally posted by evererin:Ya lor..but i pass the ring to lilogirl liao..shit.....give u this one first
They reali meant 2 b together...
Hope it applies 2 mi as well... -
While replying to shan cai, i feel that she is going to be a great girlfriend. She bothers to improve on their relationships, trying to understand her boyfriend better.
Seriously,
Transmission really impressed.
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Me also think so too...shes reali as nice as shancai in the show..Originally posted by Transmission:While replying to shan cai, i feel that she is going to be a great girlfriend. She bothers to improve on their relationships, trying to understand her boyfriend better.
Seriously,
Transmission really impressed.
*Clap Clap*
dun wori,the ring will bless the two of u!Trust me.... -
No lah... U all not tokin crap lah.
Said liao, ur replies wil b greatly appreciated mah.
Juz like everin said, relationship is abt givin n receivin, but one thing i need 2 'qiang diao' is tat BOTH parties haf 2 gif n take loh... Not onli one.
/paiseh everin... mi scared ppl misintepret ur meanin... -
Me lazy...ok i edit it lor...easy..haha...well..reali lor..must give n take...but if at one pt.it seem tat one is giving too much n the others is taking to much..its reali not good.better remedy soon...Originally posted by shan_cai:No lah... U all not tokin crap lah.
Said liao, ur replies wil b greatly appreciated mah.
Juz like everin said, relationship is abt givin n receivin, but one thing i need 2 'qiang diao' is tat BOTH parties haf 2 gif n take loh... Not onli one.
/paiseh everin... mi scared ppl misintepret ur meanin...
nvr let the ratio fall out of 70:30 or vice versa -
Yup... Maybe in e past mi n my bf encountered sm probs in our relationship. But aft wat had happened, i've been tryin 2 improve on our relationship... Juz dunno if my bf noes it or not.
Itz reali hard 2 maintain a relationship, esp a long term one. But no matter how hard it takes i'll stil hold on 2 it loh.
But smtimes im wonderin whether my way of understandin him is wrong or not leh... Maybe tatz wat had led 2 e past quarrels loh... -
hai ...
lifes like that.
The advices you give to ppl on their relationship problems, it will never work on ourself... but work for others...
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I dun it's hard. But try not to think too much loh.. Rest now, so U have the strength to study/work tml. HAve a good talk wif ur bf ok. No point worrying it too much. it's part n parcel of lifeOriginally posted by shan_cai:No lah... U all not tokin crap lah.
Said liao, ur replies wil b greatly appreciated mah.
Juz like everin said, relationship is abt givin n receivin, but one thing i need 2 'qiang diao' is tat BOTH parties haf 2 gif n take loh... Not onli one.
/paiseh everin... mi scared ppl misintepret ur meanin... -
Well....u should try to tell him tat u r doing alot for this relationship..and tat hope he realise tat and to do the same wif u...Originally posted by shan_cai:Yup... Maybe in e past mi n my bf encountered sm probs in our relationship. But aft wat had happened, i've been tryin 2 improve on our relationship... Juz dunno if my bf noes it or not.
Itz reali hard 2 maintain a relationship, esp a long term one. But no matter how hard it takes i'll stil hold on 2 it loh.
But smtimes im wonderin whether my way of understandin him is wrong or not leh... Maybe tatz wat had led 2 e past quarrels loh...
Understand someone totali is not as good as u think it is.. -
Originally posted by evererin:
Well, in e past i tot i've been e one givin more than my bf. But i was wrong loh... I've come 2 realise tat i actuali take more than i gif. Or maybe put it dis way, both of us did our part ~~ he always gif in 2 mi n i oso got 'fu chu' loh. But itz juz tat e proportion is wrong.
Me lazy...ok i edit it lor...easy..haha...well..reali lor..must give n take...but if at one pt.[b]it seem tat one is giving too much n the others is taking to much..its reali not good.better remedy soon...
nvr let the ratio fall out of 70:30 or vice versa[/b]
But 2 mi love is smthin u cant measure loh... How much u gif n take is purely based on ur feelins one leh... But better muz balance abit lah.
~~>"Shi Bi Shou Gen Kuai Le"<~~
>>>Dun u tink so? -
Originally posted by shan_cai:
If u were me and u find out I have been giving so much to my ex...its like a 90:10 ratio..maybe even 100% giving by me...u will find tat giving is not as good as u think...sometimes..they just take n throw away..which u dunno too..sigh..me dunno how to explain lor..maybe its becos its my first stead,i reali give in too much.Suffer in the end is me n me alone....sigh....nvm..me can only advise ppl..come to myself..i sux in relatioships....sigh
Well, in e past i tot i've been e one givin more than my bf. But i was wrong loh... I've come 2 realise tat i actuali take more than i gif. Or maybe put it dis way, both of us did our part ~~ he always gif in 2 mi n i oso got 'fu chu' loh. But itz juz tat e proportion is wrong.
But 2 mi love is smthin u cant measure loh... How much u gif n take is purely based on ur feelins one leh... But better muz balance abit lah.
[b]~~>"Shi Bi Shou Gen Kuai Le"<~~
>>>Dun u tink so?[/b] -
Alrite, frenz...
Time 2 go 2 bed liao wor. So late late liao. 4 those who need 2 work or study, better get adequate rest or else tomo no jing shen ah.
Thks anyway... Keep ur comments comin in!!!
Hope 2 c more posts tomo...
Nitez...! -
Originally posted by shan_cai:
nitez shan cai. hope ur daomingsi n u can resolve the problem.
Alrite, frenz...
Time 2 go 2 bed liao wor. So late late liao. 4 those who need 2 work or study, better get adequate rest or else tomo no jing shen ah.
Thks anyway... Keep ur comments comin in!!!
Hope 2 c more posts tomo...
[b]Nitez...![/b] -
Like u said, itz not always gd. But itz oso not always bad wat...Originally posted by evererin:If u were me and u find out I have been giving so much to my ex...its like a 90:10 ratio..maybe even 100% giving by me...u will find tat giving is not as good as u think...sometimes..they just take n throw away..which u dunno too..sigh..me dunno how to explain lor..maybe its becos its my first stead,i reali give in too much.Suffer in the end is me n me alone....sigh....nvm..me can only advise ppl..come to myself..i sux in relatioships....sigh
I tink if u wan ur other half 2 b genuinely happy, gif how much oso doesnt matter... Tatz how i tink loh. I juz wan my bf 2 b happy bein wif mi. I wan him 2 rem our sweet memories n not regret bein wif mi... -
Yes, me nvr thought abt going stead for the duration..just hapy can liao...haha....oh well..me still a failure in relationship...reali lor...sigh..me can onlu advise...my advices did help alot of couples...haha..actually..all my advices helped...so no worries shancai...u can do it....make this a memorable relatioship lor...me no koon liao..have to wake up at 7:30am..pointless to koon le..Originally posted by shan_cai:Like u said, itz not always gd. But itz oso not always bad wat...
I tink if u wan ur other half 2 b genuinely happy, gif how much oso doesnt matter... Tatz how i tink loh. I juz wan my bf 2 b happy bein wif mi. I wan him 2 rem our sweet memories n not regret bein wif mi... -
K loh... Thks leh...
Mi gonna koon liao loh.
Abit slpy liao...
Nitenitez!