What would you do if your wife...
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Well I have to say she is starting to act like most of the modern sg girls and is no longer the girl-next-door
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Hmm..worth a totOriginally posted by pie:Is she giving you a taste of your own medicine?
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How else does she contribute to the household then?Originally posted by Troy437:Oh forgot to mention...She also refuse to pay for any bills.
Her mental model = My money is her money, her money is her money. Its is not her role to pay for any bills bcoz I am supposed to sarport the house and car. -
She wash our clothes with the washing machine. Does not include keeping the clothes unless sofa no place to sit liao.Originally posted by pie:How else does she contribute to the household then?
She cooks when she is free. Does not include washing the utensils unless got insect attack or got stench liao. Thats all.
I do the rest. Including washing her toilet and clearing her sanitary bin...
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Huh. Like that a bit too much la. Never contribute in terms of $$ then have to contribute in terms of housework.Originally posted by Troy437:She wash our clothes with the washing machine. Does not include keeping the clothes unless sofa no place to sit liao.
She cooks when she is free. Does not include washing the utensils unless got insect attack or got stench liao. Thats all.
I do the rest. Including washing her toilet and clearing her sanitary bin... -
yalor ......... time to import cockroaches into the house .......Originally posted by elindra:Huh. Like that a bit too much la. Never contribute in terms of $$ then have to contribute in terms of housework.
see how she react .......
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Well, sometimes is a blissOriginally posted by Troy437:is becoming more and more intelligent?
To me, my wife was an idiot who could not do things w/o being told exactly how.
She used to be unemployed and often call me for nothing just to ask what time I coming home and where am I. Then I felt she is too free and have no fds.
Then I arranged everything for her for her to be a better person, from attending courses to her current stable job. I updates her with the latest in the news and taught her whatever I learn too. I created email accounts for her and taught her how to use msn.
and suddenly nearly a year later....I realised that she is becoming more intelligent.
She starts to correct my mistakes, figure out how to use electronic stuffs at home and sent emails & sms with good English. She got into clubbing and now its a routine on every Wed, Fri & Sat. She slimmed down and got in shape.
She now dares to shout back at me, goes out as and when she likes with my car and tells me about her strong circle of fds. She have changed all her passwords which I create for her. She opened another bank account of her own which I only knew recently. And now even she decides when we can have sex.
I got freaked out and told her she have changed.
And she tells me, 'Dun worry, I will still miss u when I go out. You are still my top priority even though I am with my fds'.
huh? 
Did I created a monster? I am stressed out. 
Won't you really want your wife to get back to her figure?
As for bank account, nothing new... Most woman would keep their own $$... -
Huh??? Why have you married her? I don't think it was from love. I think you just simply wanted someone who you can control easily. Normal guys fall for smart girls, atleast in my circle of friends.
I'm just shocked from what I have read. Not from your wife getting smarter (finally she is starting to "live" ), but from your attitude. -
He's probably still in shock because of the change in the way their relationship is run...and that can exacerbate the suspicions he had when he saw the new account and his wife holding another man's arms...it's difficult to say if such fears are true.
A good, long even-tempered talk seems necessary to me. -
maybe troy also treating her the same wae before?
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Just to let u have a clearer picture.Originally posted by thinkdifferent:Huh??? Why have you married her? I don't think it was from love. I think you just simply wanted someone who you can control easily. Normal guys fall for smart girls, atleast in my circle of friends.
I'm just shocked from what I have read. Not from your wife getting smarter (finally she is starting to "live" ), but from your attitude.
We are married for 3 years. Planning to have kids.
Now she dun wan to have kids as she say kids will hinder her life.
She let her two dogs in my care with she goes karaoke, clubbing and drinking at East Cost or Pasir Ris. Worst of all, she does drinking in my car without even telling me. Both the dogs are in bad state and now I have to clean the house and look after the dogs.
She got her bonus last week and she stash away half in an unknown bank account. I had to use my bonus to clear all the outstanding bills amounting to $1,000/- which was incurred by her. She refuse to pay for anything, citing ther she needs the money to go clubbing and her cigarettes. And she says she hates me for not giving her a supplymentary credit-card.
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errr.... if you really unhappy, pls reconsider the kids situation... looks like she isn't ready to be mama. later she may blame you for causing her to become baby-making machine....Originally posted by Troy437:Just to let u have a clearer picture.
We are married for 3 years. Planning to have kids.
Now she dun wan to have kids as she say kids will hinder her life.
She let her two dogs in my care with she goes karaoke, clubbing and drinking at East Cost or Pasir Ris. Worst of all, she does drinking in my car without even telling me. Both the dogs are in bad state and now I have to clean the house and look after the dogs.
She got her bonus last week and she stash away half in an unknown bank account. I had to use my bonus to clear all the outstanding bills amounting to $1,000/- which was incurred by her. She refuse to pay for anything, citing ther she needs the money to go clubbing and her cigarettes. And she says she hates me for not giving her a supplymentary credit-card.
You think my attitude is wrong?
and children are a blessings, shouldn't introduc them if your relationship seems unsettled.
try harder troy! g-luck!
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took yr wife long enough to know thatOriginally posted by Troy437:Oh forgot to mention...She also refuse to pay for any bills.
Her mental model = My money is her money, her money is her money. Its is not her role to pay for any bills bcoz I am supposed to sarport the house and car. -
Woohoo.
Another woman has suckered another man. -
seem like she is under influence from her friends.Originally posted by Troy437:Just to let u have a clearer picture.
We are married for 3 years. Planning to have kids.
Now she dun wan to have kids as she say kids will hinder her life.
She let her two dogs in my care with she goes karaoke, clubbing and drinking at East Cost or Pasir Ris. Worst of all, she does drinking in my car without even telling me. Both the dogs are in bad state and now I have to clean the house and look after the dogs.
She got her bonus last week and she stash away half in an unknown bank account. I had to use my bonus to clear all the outstanding bills amounting to $1,000/- which was incurred by her. She refuse to pay for anything, citing ther she needs the money to go clubbing and her cigarettes. And she says she hates me for not giving her a supplymentary credit-card.
You think my attitude is wrong?
I can only say good luck to u.
it is going to be a hard battle for u -
sounded familar .. maybe next thing she's going to say is .. "I dun luv u anymore"
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there may be some basis for this.... watch out.Originally posted by margarita:sounded familar .. maybe next thing she's going to say is .. "I dun luv u anymore" -
Yeah man...I found out that she often mixed with divorcees when she go clubbing. Those farking b i t c h e s!!Originally posted by Kenashi:seem like she is under influence from her friends.
I can only say good luck to u.
it is going to be a hard battle for u