What would you do if your wife...
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is becoming more and more intelligent?
To me, my wife was an idiot who could not do things w/o being told exactly how.
She used to be unemployed and often call me for nothing just to ask what time I coming home and where am I. Then I felt she is too free and have no fds.
Then I arranged everything for her for her to be a better person, from attending courses to her current stable job. I updates her with the latest in the news and taught her whatever I learn too. I created email accounts for her and taught her how to use msn.
and suddenly nearly a year later....I realised that she is becoming more intelligent.
She starts to correct my mistakes, figure out how to use electronic stuffs at home and sent emails & sms with good English. She got into clubbing and now its a routine on every Wed, Fri & Sat. She slimmed down and got in shape.
She now dares to shout back at me, goes out as and when she likes with my car and tells me about her strong circle of fds. She have changed all her passwords which I create for her. She opened another bank account of her own which I only knew recently. And now even she decides when we can have sex.
I got freaked out and told her she have changed.
And she tells me, 'Dun worry, I will still miss u when I go out. You are still my top priority even though I am with my fds'.
huh? 
Did I created a monster? I am stressed out. 
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yeah yeah yeah! way to go mrs troy!!!
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Originally posted by FireIce:yeah yeah yeah! way to go mrs troy!!!
I just dropped into a well and you throw stones down on me ah?? -
merry xmas ......Originally posted by FireIce:yeah yeah yeah! way to go mrs troy!!!
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shouldn't u be proud?
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If your wife gets any smarter, she might turn into a man.
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No leh...I feel dam insecure.Originally posted by FireIce:shouldn't u be proud?
Last night we have a quarrel abt her behaviour change.
I got an even bigger shock.
She analyse my situation, summarised what my concerns are and concluded that I must be feeling insecure abt her. I am so shocked bcoz she is right!!
She is also of the opnion that I may be suffering from depression and advised me to see a phychiatrist.
WTF ? -
trust that she becomes smarter is good for you.... any more pressure on her n you'll end up knocking the head on the wall yourself...
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Originally posted by Troy437:No leh...I feel dam insecure.
Last night we have a quarrel abt her behaviour change.
I got an even bigger shock.
She analyse my situation, summarised what my concerns are and concluded that I must be feeling insecure abt her. I am so shocked bcoz she is right!!
She is also of the opnion that I may be suffering from depression and advised me to see a phychiatrist.
WTF ? 
To me, you seem to be in a competition to be the person with more control.
Where's the trust?
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She's me. hurhurhur.....Originally posted by Troy437:No leh...I feel dam insecure.
Last night we have a quarrel abt her behaviour change.
I got an even bigger shock.
She analyse my situation, summarised what my concerns are and concluded that I must be feeling insecure abt her. I am so shocked bcoz she is right!!
She is also of the opnion that I may be suffering from depression and advised me to see a phychiatrist.
WTF ? -
go see the phychiatrist as advised ...... but charge the bill to ur wifeOriginally posted by Troy437:No leh...I feel dam insecure.
Last night we have a quarrel abt her behaviour change.
I got an even bigger shock.
She analyse my situation, summarised what my concerns are and concluded that I must be feeling insecure abt her. I am so shocked bcoz she is right!!
She is also of the opnion that I may be suffering from depression and advised me to see a phychiatrist.
WTF ? 
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on the other hand, maybe the ghost in ur house (yes, the ghost, rber the ghost?) possessed her
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Oh forgot to mention...She also refuse to pay for any bills.Originally posted by InnoHippo:go see the phychiatrist as advised ...... but charge the bill to ur wife
Her mental model = My money is her money, her money is her money. Its is not her role to pay for any bills bcoz I am supposed to sarport the house and car. -
The ghost is on annual leave, as ghost system do not permit leave to be carried forward to next year.Originally posted by FireIce:on the other hand, maybe the ghost in ur house (yes, the ghost, rber the ghost?) possessed her -
Hello? That's the industry standard like ISO9001, I'm sure you knew pretty well before you both got engaged?Originally posted by Troy437:Her mental model = My money is her money, her money is her money. Its is not her -
I don't see why you should be stressed.
If she can think for herself she can help out with the planning etc and you should be happy that their is less to worry about because she can help share your burden.
I don't think you want a little woman who is a frog in the well and she is entitled to have her friends and own space. Everyone is entitled to that.
You should be proud that she has her own initiative to learn as well. As for passwords, everyone is entitled to their own privacy. I wouldn't like it if my huband goes through my sms or emails without my permission.
Having her own social life does not mean that she no longer love you. Or are you insecure that suddenly her life does not revolve solely around you anymore? -
He's insecure she's becoming smarter than him.
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Just be careful ok?Originally posted by Troy437:Oh forgot to mention...She also refuse to pay for any bills.
Her mental model = My money is her money, her money is her money. Its is not her role to pay for any bills bcoz I am supposed to sarport the house and car.
This type will leave you asap when she finds a new one becos she knows that you no longer can maintain her lifestyle.
People change some for the worst some for the better.
Thats life which no one can change.
Possible solutions.
1) Seprate from your wife. She is becoming too smart for you day by day is only time when she will start straying from you.
2) Show that you are smarter than her. One of the methods is to show that you can live your life without her and show that you are stronger then her.
3) Spend more quality time with her. Take her for a walk to remind yourself of the good old days you once had. -
time to make a baby.
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Yes. I notice there are a lot of guys in her circle.Originally posted by elindra:... Or are you insecure that suddenly her life does not revolve solely around you anymore?
Last Sat I send her to her fds B-day and when we arrived, she just alighted from the car quickly and nv even say anything to me. She went over to her fds and she nv even noticed that I have not driven off. I saw her hold the arm of any guy and talking in close proximity.
I asked her the next day and she say that is the B-day boy. I really buay song. -
WRONG!Originally posted by ditzy:He's insecure she's becoming smarter than him.
I am insecure bcoz she is becoming smarter than I expected. -
Discussed oredi.Originally posted by FireIce:time to make a baby.
End up fierce quarrel.
She dun wan baby now bcoz she said will hinder her life style. -
Accidentally have baby how?Originally posted by Troy437:Discussed oredi.
End up fierce quarrel.
She dun wan baby now bcoz she said will hinder her life style. -
Firstly, although I hate her guts, I think it is not right to make her pregnant her deliberately.Originally posted by ditzy:Accidentally have baby how?
Then I will suffer bcoz I know she have the heart to pass e baby to me while she go out and play.
Unless I feed her until she becomes so fat and she lost the confidence to go out
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Is she giving you a taste of your own medicine?
