Guys: Read this and tell me what would you do!

• Troy437

  1 Dec 05, 21:53

  What do you think in the following scenario?
  
  X have a relative B (slightly younger than X). Meet oni once a year during Chinese New Year.
  X's wife meets the relative B by chance while she went clubbing and he is getting close to X's wife.
  Both goes to the same place for clubbing together every week as got kaki.
  
  X found out that actually this relative B is going thru divorce and is a regular at the clubbing spot they go.
  
  X's wife hangs out at the clubbing spot during further clubbing sessions with B and is returning later and later from 3 am become close to 6 am.
  And one morning in the wee hours after clubbing, X's wife brings the relative home to sleep, as B ask to sleep over saying he can't drive any further after sending her to X's house.
  
  X is very unhappy his wife wife brought B back to sleep. If B can drive the wife back home for such a long distance from Orchard to the North, why can't he drive a himself home? B never say anything and leaves after he wakes up.
  
  X tells his wife stay away from B...X's wife says she is showing hospitality bcoz B is X's relative and B always sent her home after clubbing, thus saving cab fare. X says "Relative so what?".
  
  X subsequently had a heated arguement with his wife over an unrelated matter on weekend.
  X goes to work at night on the weekend and comes back at 7 am after the night shift and found his wife not at home.
  X calls his wife. Wife says she is with B, having breakfast after clubbing with B.
  X waits for his wife at void deck.
  30 minutes later, B drops X's wife near her house. X's wife saw X waiting (but still angry over the the earlier night's quarrel) but sneak past him into the lift and went str home, lock herself in another bedroom and sleep.
  X dunno and call B asking where they are. B says he dropped X's wife off liao. X very frustrated goes home and found himself locked out from bedroom.
  
  A while later, B sms X saying dun call him at his private hp number and to call another hp number. X got B's so-called 'private number' from his wife hp!!
  
  What would u do if you are X?
  
• Angelo09

  1 Dec 05, 22:04

  why so confusing.
  
  chop them all
• Troy437

  1 Dec 05, 22:04

  X feels like attacking B to send him a strong signal that he mean business...But X knows the mother of B and does not want to cause her any sorrow....
• Pitot

  1 Dec 05, 22:05

  Originally posted by Troy437:

  X feels like attacking B to send him a strong signal that he mean business...But X knows the mother of B and does not want to cause her any sorrow....

  The worst thing X can do is to attack B.
• Angelo09

  1 Dec 05, 22:09

  like the lian he wan bao hero
• Luke 168

  1 Dec 05, 22:10

  
  hrm..sit down and talk...?
• Troy437

  1 Dec 05, 23:03

  Originally posted by Luke 168:

  hrm..sit down and talk...?

  Sit down and talk? No working in any way bcoz both cannot be clam and wants to speak louder to prove their point...
• Luke 168

  2 Dec 05, 01:46

  
  hrm, since both of you have married, i guess there
  is nothing both of you can't worked out.
  Try to let her know our point of view and vice versa.
  Raising the voice just to get the point/attention across
  is not the best solution.
  I guess our reaction is normal enough, but it's because
  you still love and care about her.
  I guess both of you should be in each other's shoes.
• progene

  2 Dec 05, 02:01

  I Gt a headached liao...can gif dem sum names anot....
  
  Best is celeberity names...so ez identify...