I wish I can lose my memory...
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Too many unpleasant memories in my life.
Some brings anger. Like Yoda in Star Wars says...."Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering."
I wish to lose my memory, bcoz I have too many unpleasant memories compared to good ones.
Anyone else wish they will lost their memory and start life afresh?
Join me...... and tell me what you wish to do if you had lost your memory and can start life all over again. -
woah, me got same feelings as u tonight dude...i wish i can erase my memories like what Zhang Bozhi did in the show, Wo Jia You Ge He Dong Shi...
and restart... -
I hope to be able to take part in the great Dakar Rally, travelling in an SUV from Europe to Africa, crossing 9000 plus km in 16 days. Thats what I want do....my dream!
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Some memories can indeed lead to anger. Anger can indeed lead to hate. Hate can lead to suffering.Originally posted by Troy437:Too many unpleasant memories in my life.
Some brings anger. Like Yoda in Star Wars says...."Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering."
I wish to lose my memory, bcoz I have too many unpleasant memories compared to good ones.
Anyone else wish they will lost their memory and start life afresh?
Join me...... and tell me what you wish to do if you had lost your memory and can start life all over again.
But having no memories at all leads to emptiness in your soul. Memories help to define and shape the person who you are, even if some of them are not that pleasant.
Inner strength does not come from denying your bad memories. It comes from acknowledging them and living with them. It comes from living despite them.
I'm not trying to trivialise your bad memories. I also have a lot of bad memories. Some of them are known only to me. Not even the closest and the dearest to me know completely the entire story of my life which is full of both joy and pain.
Yet, as much as it pains to carry all that emotional luggage around, I know that it helps to define the person who I am. -
How very true!Originally posted by fudgester:Some memories can indeed lead to anger. Anger can indeed lead to hate. Hate can lead to suffering.
But having no memories at all leads to emptiness in your soul. Memories help to define and shape the person who you are, even if some of them are not that pleasant.
Inner strength does not come from denying your bad memories. It comes from acknowledging them and living with them. It comes from living despite them.
I'm not trying to trivialise your bad memories. I also have a lot of bad memories. Some of them are known only to me. Not even the closest and the dearest to me know completely the entire story of my life which is full of both joy and pain.
Yet, as much as it pains to carry all that emotional luggage around, I know that it helps to define the person who I am.
Thinking back...I learn alot from my bad memories, making a diff in my life. Thanks for giving me a reason to stop hitting my head. -
Yep,I also have some bad memories and sometimes it got worse that I will have a slight headache. Thinking of doing an electric treatment at the IMH. But too expensive,so no choice, got to slowly erase it from my memory.
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well said ....Originally posted by fudgester:Some memories can indeed lead to anger. Anger can indeed lead to hate. Hate can lead to suffering.
But having no memories at all leads to emptiness in your soul. Memories help to define and shape the person who you are, even if some of them are not that pleasant.
Inner strength does not come from denying your bad memories. It comes from acknowledging them and living with them. It comes from living despite them.
I'm not trying to trivialise your bad memories. I also have a lot of bad memories. Some of them are known only to me. Not even the closest and the dearest to me know completely the entire story of my life which is full of both joy and pain.
Yet, as much as it pains to carry all that emotional luggage around, I know that it helps to define the person who I am.