Romantic Jerks
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Are jerks romantic pple? Why girls love them despite them being jerks?
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U JERK !!Originally posted by InnoHippo:Are jerks romantic pple? Why girls love them despite them being jerks? 
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hippo not romantic lehOriginally posted by pipi & poot-poot:U JERK !! 
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nan ren bu huai. nu ren bu ai....
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OMG .... hippo must become evil liao .....Originally posted by skeujin:nan ren bu huai. nu ren bu ai....
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lomantic is not relevant here
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get out of here ..... smelly chuteOriginally posted by poon cho tang:lomantic is not relevant here -
whatever!!!
girls like jerks is their buz not mine -
go find hopy to PIAK n thn ill belive u...Originally posted by InnoHippo:OMG .... hippo must become evil liao ..... -
u gay or what?Originally posted by Kenashi:whatever!!!
girls like jerks is their buz not mine -
u not girl .... no need to make u believe lahOriginally posted by skeujin:go find hopy to PIAK n thn ill belive u... -
who says im not!Originally posted by InnoHippo:u not girl .... no need to make u believe lah 
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checked, confirmed not gayOriginally posted by InnoHippo:u gay or what? 
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ok .... not the girl hippo is afterOriginally posted by skeujin:who says im not! -
since when its a law to piak me in order to prove ur evilness huh?Originally posted by skeujin:go find hopy to PIAK n thn ill belive u... -
sometimes its nt becoz gals like jerks.. its more of they dun know, or they r blinded by luv.. most imptly, its sooooooooooooooo hard to find a nice guy these daysOriginally posted by InnoHippo:Are jerks romantic pple? Why girls love them despite them being jerks? 
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Pipi parades in front of Hopy*Originally posted by hopy:sometimes its nt becoz gals like jerks.. its more of they dun know, or they r blinded by luv.. most imptly, its sooooooooooooooo hard to find a nice guy these days -
watch out for Pipi when u cross the streets next time .....Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Pipi parades in front of Hopy* -
ladies n gentlemen~ this is a typical eg of wat i called...Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Pipi parades in front of Hopy*
jerk -
the nice guys have turned evil to attract nice girlsOriginally posted by hopy:sometimes its nt becoz gals like jerks.. its more of they dun know, or they r blinded by luv.. most imptly, its sooooooooooooooo hard to find a nice guy these days -
nm.. the cars will take care of him, followed by the black vanOriginally posted by InnoHippo:watch out for Pipi when u cross the streets next time ..... -
y shld they? juz be wat they r n someday someone will appreciate them?Originally posted by InnoHippo:the nice guys have turned evil to attract nice girls 
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that someday takes forever to come lehOriginally posted by hopy:y shld they? juz be wat they r n someday someone will appreciate them? -
wats forever? think the defination is subjective?Originally posted by InnoHippo:that someday takes forever to come leh
besides...
wld u rather go against ur principles in life? or end up marrying the wrong person?
think if tt's the case.. i rather remain single but happy -
http://marriage.about.com/od/difficultissues/a/marriedjerk.htm
It happens to a lot to people. You fall in love. The romantic phase blinds you to your partner's imperfections. Your spouse is a jerk. You think your mate will change. You hope that in time the difficult aspects of your spouse's jerky personality will go away. But it doesn't happen.
You find yourself in love with a person you can't stand and don't like. Comments from others like "You should have known better..." or "Didn't you see it while dating..." won't help when living with a jerk. Should you throw in the towel when the handsome prince turns into a toad? Or is there hope for such a marriage?
There is hope for this type of situation. However, it does take honest and caring communication.
Types of Difficult Spouses
# The Know-it-All
# The Negative Thinker
# The Criticizer
# The Wishy-Washy Type
# The Silent Clam
# The Bully
# The Sickening Sweet Personality
# The Procrastinator
# The Self-centered and Selfish Person
# The Demanding Type
# The Joker
# The Embarrassing Spouse
Personality compatibility is an important characteristic of happy couples. Irritating habits and activities of a jerk can drive you up the wall just like the drip, drip, drip of a leaky faucet. If ignored, it only gets worse.
Coping Strategies if You've Married a Jerk
# Recognize you can't change your spouse. You can change your reactions and responses.
# Reinforce positive behavior. When you spouse does something right, say so!
# Maintain eye contact when stating your own opinions and feelings. Be prepared so you know what you want to say before you say it.
# Be straight forward and clear in your communications with your spouse.
# Don't place blame. It only creates defensiveness. Use "I" statements.
# Try and focus on the positive. Looking only at the negative behaviors in your spouse can be self-fulfilling.
# Be honest about yourself. If you make a mistake, admit it.
# Listen with both your heart and your mind.
# Make time to be alone together such as taking walks.