Another touching story
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>A heart-warming story...
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>My husband is an engineer by profession, I love him for his steady-being
>nature, and I love the warm feeling while leaning against his broad
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>Three years in the courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would
>have to admit, I am getting tired of it, the reasons of me loving him
>before has now transform into the cause of all the restlessness.
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>I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive and exquisite when
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>it comes to relationship and feelings, I yearn for romantic moments, as
>though a little boy yearning for candy.
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>And my husband, is just a contrast of me, his lack of sensitivity, and
>of all, inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has
>disheartened me about love.
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>One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I want a
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>divorce.
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>"Why?" he asked, shockingly.
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>"I am tired, there aren't reasons for everything in the world" I
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>He kept silent the whole night, seemed to be in deep thoughts the whole
>night with a cigarette lighted all the time.
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>My feeling of disappointment is getting intense, a man who can't even
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>express his detainment, what else can I hope from him?
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>And finally he asked, " What can I do to change your mind?"
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>Somebody said it right, it's hard to change a person's personality,
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>and I guess, I have started losing faith in him.
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>Looking deep into his eyes, I slowly answered, "Here is a question,
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>if you can find the answer in my heart, I will change my mind, Let's
>say, I love a flower at a mountain cliff, and we are both sure that
>making you pick the flower will cause death, will you do it for me?"
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>He said, " I will give you your answer tomorrow...."
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>My heart just sank by listening to his respond.
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>The next morning, he was not around, and I saw a piece of paper with his
>scratching writing, underneath a glass of warm milk, It goes....
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>Dear,
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>"I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to further
>explain the reasons"
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>this first line had already broken my heart. I continued reading.
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>"You can only type with computer and always mess up the programs in the
>PC, and cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I
>can help restore the programs.
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>You always leave the house key behind, I have to save my legs to rush
>home to open the door for you.
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>You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to
>save my eyes to lead you the way.
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>You always have the cramp whenever your "good friend" approaches every
>month, I have to save my palm so that I can calm the cramps at your
>tummy.
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>You like to stay indoor, and I worry that you will be infected by
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>infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories
>to cure your boredom.
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>You always stare at the computers, and that do no good to your eyes, I
>have to save my eyes so that when we grow older, I can help to clip your
>nails,and help to remove those annoying white hairs.
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>I will hold your hand, stroll down the beach, enjoying the sunshine and
>the beautiful sands... tell you the colour of flowers, just like
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>the glow on your young face...
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>Thus, my dear, I am sure there are someone who loves you more than I
>do... I would not pick the flower, and die.. "
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>My tears dropped on the letters, and blurred the ink of his hand
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>writing...
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>and I resumed my reading...
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>"And now, dear... you have finished reading my answer, if you are
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>satisfied with these answers, please open the door of our house, I am
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>standing there, with your favorite bread and fresh milk...
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>I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, with his hand
>holding tight on the milk and bread....
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>Oh I am sure no one ever love me as much, and now I have decided to
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>leave the flower alone...
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>That's life, or some said, love, when one is surrounded by love, the
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>feeling of excitement fades away, and one tend to ignore the
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>true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
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>Love shows in any form, even a very little and corny form, it has never
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>been a model, it could be the most incurious form... flowers, romantic
>moments is only the buckish formed on the surface of the relationship.
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>Under all this, the pillar of truelove stands... and that's our life...
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>I hope everyone enjoy reading it... love, but not words win the
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>arguments...
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>What's yours is yours even if u let it go
>What's not yours will never be yours even if u hold on
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N.B. this is not written by me... juz an email that I would like to share with everyone
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tho' i had read this b4.
but reading it again make my eyes wet again...
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same goes for me.... sob sob
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Thank You very much for sharing the story. I don't understand the depth of the story. But i'm sure i will face it someday....somehow.
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You are most welcomedOriginally posted by M©+square:Thank You very much for sharing the story. I don't understand the depth of the story. But i'm sure i will face it someday....somehow.
I guess alot of ppl have this tendency to take things for granted or neglect the beautiful "treasures" that surrounds us... -
I believe the story has greater depth. Would love to find out what makes the author or husband write such a reply.Originally posted by realitybites:You are most welcomed
I guess alot of ppl have this tendency to take things for granted or neglect the beautiful "treasures" that surrounds us...
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its ok only la..
i like the one someone wrote abt roses better..
the husband died but paid in advance for the roses every year until she join him in heaven
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touch touch....Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its ok only la..
i like the one someone wrote abt roses better..
the husband died but paid in advance for the roses every year until she join him in heaven
wonder will my future half will do such thing?
also read about the 100 "I LOVE U" email jammed story? anyone? -
oh really ??? I'd love to read it if I have a chanceOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:its ok only la..
i like the one someone wrote abt roses better..
the husband died but paid in advance for the roses every year until she join him in heaven -
Originally posted by Seacucumber:touch touch....
wonder will my future half will do such thing?
also read about the 100 "I LOVE U" email jammed story? anyone? I m sure u'd meet someone who'd love & cherish u -
Originally posted by realitybites:qq I m sure u'd meet someone who'd love & cherish u
how u noe people call me qq? 
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hehe ...Originally posted by Seacucumber: how u noe people call me qq? 
Luo yao ren bu zhi chu fei ji mo wei -
hao yi ge chu fei ji mo wei, xiao mei wo pei fu. pei fu...Originally posted by realitybites:hehe ...
Luo yao ren bu zhi chu fei ji mo wei -
guo jiang guo jiang... well...the fact is that u r pretty popular in the forum...Originally posted by Seacucumber:hao yi ge chu fei ji mo wei, xiao mei wo pei fu. pei fu... -
no, i am not.Originally posted by realitybites:guo jiang guo jiang... well...the fact is that u r pretty popular in the forum...
just a xiao mao mao.....
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oh u r juz being humble ... anyway.. i've gotta run.... thanks for reading my thread kekeOriginally posted by realitybites:guo jiang guo jiang... well...the fact is that u r pretty popular in the forum... -
haha.Originally posted by realitybites:oh u r juz being humble ... anyway.. i've gotta run.... thanks for reading my thread keke
u quote yourself for?
well, ta!!
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paiseh...
really gotta run liaozz -
run gal, run...Originally posted by realitybites:paiseh...
really gotta run liaozz
have a good dinner.. -
its somewhere in this forum.Originally posted by realitybites:oh really ??? I'd love to read it if I have a chance -
absolutely no offence to u, or whoever likes that story (i know which one u're talking about) but that story is full of crap..Originally posted by dumbdumb!:its ok only la..
i like the one someone wrote abt roses better..
the husband died but paid in advance for the roses every year until she join him in heaven
if i died, i would want my loved one to get on with her life and be happee.. not to remember me every year with a heavy heart becos she misses me so much. i mean every year she receives the flowers, she's gonna think of wat a sweet/caring/loving etc etc guy i am but the best part is i'm gone forever.
well some say loving isn't possession. the person doesn't need to be around to love them. i say would u be happier if the person u loved is around u? or would u choose for her to be gone forever, just knowing that she loves u and u love her?
the world is practical... and selfish. anyway it's not selfish when BOTH are happier being together. to be "possessed" by each other..
andddddddddddddddd one other thing.. i'm going OT liow.. pai seh.
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yeah i read that one.. she's a doctor or something rite? saw him on her operating table becos he was rushing to meet her? or something like that..Originally posted by Seacucumber:touch touch....
wonder will my future half will do such thing?
also read about the 100 "I LOVE U" email jammed story? anyone? -
Originally posted by jOhO:absolutely no offence to u, or whoever likes that story (i know which one u're talking about) but that story is full of crap..
if i died, i would want my loved one to get on with her life and be happee.. not to remember me every year with a heavy heart becos she misses me so much. i mean every year she receives the flowers, she's gonna think of wat a sweet/caring/loving etc etc guy i am but the best part is i'm gone forever.
well some say loving isn't possession. the person doesn't need to be around to love them. i say would u be happier if the person u loved is around u? or would u choose for her to be gone forever, just knowing that she loves u and u love her?
the world is practical... and selfish. anyway it's not selfish when BOTH are happier being together. to be "possessed" by each other..
andddddddddddddddd one other thing.. i'm going OT liow.. pai seh. 
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Can someone post that story?? Din read it thou.Originally posted by jOhO:yeah i read that one.. she's a doctor or something rite? saw him on her operating table becos he was rushing to meet her? or something like that..