week 14/7/03

• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 16:51

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Are you trying to use reverse psychology. Because some girls like challenges and find it a great achievement to turn a (potentially) gay man straight.
  
  

  hmm, never heard of tat..only heard gals like the challenge to turn a jerk to become a nice guy n eventually marrying him..
• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 16:53

  yah... in the end, they overlook the nice guys, and end up with jerks... and worse, they dismiss the nice guys, then say that all men are bastards
  
  this is the gist of lots of threads out there...
  
  

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  hmm, never heard of tat..only heard gals like the challenge to turn a jerk to become a nice guy n eventually marrying him..

• hunk37

  14 Jul 03, 16:54

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  my heavenly Father will guide me and protect me and becuz of Him, i have the faith to love without holding back

  that's the difference between the transforming love of God and the sensual-adolescent puppy love of hollywood and pop lyrics
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 16:55

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  is tat so?? dun think i'll wanna try that. Sekali, married and then one day found the hubby in bed wif another man...

  oh well, my galfren told me this..she read an article, saying tat there're many men like tat!!!..the wives just cant take it...kinda worst than finding their men with another women..
• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 16:56

  Originally posted by the Bear:
  hmmm..
  
  does this add credence to the saying?
  
  [b]a woman marries a man hoping to change him but he doesn't
  a man marries a woman hoping she'll not change but she does
  
  many hearts broken over this...
  
  [/b]

  watched Sex & the City last nite, and one chapter was exactly on this theme. The parting shot was : some men do change and some women ends up changing themselves rather than the man. And the bottomline was, if you really love somebody, you'll be willing to make changes for them, and will accept your loved one without changing her/him
  
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 16:56

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  yah... in the end, they overlook the nice guys, and end up with jerks... and worse, they dismiss the nice guys, then say that all men are bastards
  
  this is the gist of lots of threads out there...
  
  

  haha, life is like tat lar......maybe falling for the same gender will have less of this problem...
• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 16:56

  remember the guy in the movie "la bamba"?
  
  well, his wife ran away with another woman...
  
  

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  oh well, my galfren told me this..she read an article, saying tat there're many men like tat!!!..the wives just cant take it...kinda worst than finding their men with another women..

• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 16:57

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  that's the difference between the transforming love of God and the sensual-adolescent puppy love of hollywood and pop lyrics

  God's love is the ultimate love, that i know v well
• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 16:57

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  oh well, my galfren told me this..she read an article, saying tat there're many men like tat!!!..the wives just cant take it...kinda worst than finding their men with another women..

  yup, worst cuz it's a double-whammy.
  
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 17:00

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  remember the guy in the movie "la bamba"?
  
  well, his wife ran away with another woman...
  
  

  it can happens to both gender ya??..
• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 17:01

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  it can happens to both gender ya??..

  yes it does... sigh... wat is the world coming to??
• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 17:02

  OT: looking at the "users logged in", there seems to be 2 inzaghis
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 17:02

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  yup, worst cuz it's a double-whammy.
  

  there's this article i saw also..think is at ST...this sg guy who lived in UK for good came back to visit his frens..he was shocked..n he understands y there're many single gals here..cos they're so many gays now!!......i just cant stop luffing..
• hunk37

  14 Jul 03, 17:03

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  watched Sex & the City last nite, and one chapter was exactly on this theme. The parting shot was : some men do change and some women ends up changing themselves rather than the man. And the bottomline was, if you really love somebody, you'll be willing to make changes for them, and will accept your loved one without changing her/him
  

  but isn't the entire premise and worldview totally secular? where there is not absolute right and wrong, you can do whatever is expedient to accomplish yr goal, no relationship is permanent, enjoy whenever you can....... godlessness is in the air we breathe...and in our living rooms
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 17:03

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  yes it does... sigh... wat is the world coming to??

  move along with the tide..n u will see tat's not big deal anyway..
• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 17:04

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  OT: looking at the "users logged in", there seems to be 2 inzaghis

  oh ya, there's an ac_inzaghi!
• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 17:04

  just because we are, does not mean we must force others to be...
  
  that would be walking down the slippery slope Torquemada fell into...
  
  

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  but isn't the entire premise and worldview totally secular? where there is not absolute right and wrong, you can do whatever is expedient to accomplish yr goal, no relationship is permanent, enjoy whenever you can....... godlessness is in the air we breathe...and in our living rooms

• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 17:05

  Originally posted by hunk37:

  but isn't the entire premise and worldview totally secular? where there is not absolute right and wrong, you can do whatever is expedient to accomplish yr goal, no relationship is permanent, enjoy whenever you can....... godlessness is in the air we breathe...and in our living rooms

  wow.. very chim... am trying to digest that...
• Inzaghi

  14 Jul 03, 17:05

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  oh ya, there's an ac_inzaghi!

  hmm, just found out..dunno who is tat..
• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 17:06

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  move along with the tide..n u will see tat's not big deal anyway..

  in the aspect of morals, i do not move along with the tide. Being common doesn't equates being right
• ©(^@^)©

  14 Jul 03, 17:07

  actually wat is inzaghi??
• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 17:08

  yah...
  
  just coz everyone's doing it, doesn't mean i gotta do it or it's right...
  
  

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  in the aspect of morals, i do not move along with the tide. Being common doesn't equates being right

• skinnybeanie

  14 Jul 03, 17:08

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  hmm, just found out..dunno who is tat..

  your fan?
• sillyme

  14 Jul 03, 17:09

  i believe being christians.. we should change not because of your partner.. but we should change if convicted by the Spirit..

  Originally posted by skinnybeanie:

  watched Sex & the City last nite, and one chapter was exactly on this theme. The parting shot was : some men do change and some women ends up changing themselves rather than the man. And the bottomline was, if you really love somebody, you'll be willing to make changes for them, and will accept your loved one without changing her/him
  

• the Bear

  14 Jul 03, 17:09

  name of an italian footballer.. or rather a pair of them.. they are brothers..
  
  

  Originally posted by ©(^@^)©:

  actually wat is inzaghi??