well everything have to strike a balance right??...n also really depend on wat's the tolerance level of the gal lar...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:if a guy treats me badly all the time, i'll leave him
if he treats me nicely n badly at the same, i'll still leave him, just that it'll take me a longer while to decide. Come on, how to treat someone nicely and badly without confusing the lady??? it's like blowing hot and cold - so inconsistent! real bad theory!
Originally posted by JLennon:she must also spoil u as much as u spoil her. a good r/s cannot be a one way traffic.
Originally posted by the Bear:the good people treasure their relationship so that when it goes bad, they mourn and grieve...
those "bad" ones don't and just move on...
that's attractive?
^5!Originally posted by Shien:^5 girl!
cos women got expiry date mah..ever heard guys being left on the shelf??..maybe have, but not as much as tat being used on women i guess..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:sad to say, society dun view women as such..
Originally posted by Inzaghi:tat's the worst case!!..never never treat a gal too good, she will treat u like a doormat!!..trust me, all human beings are like tat, we take things for granted...
sometime u need to hang the gal in balance..n makes her come back to u instead..![]()
sometime u need to act as angel n as devil...Originally posted by the Bear:you go your way, i go mine
my conscience will be clear, she'll be happy, and so will i
i can do without such challenge. I dun enjoy playing wif fire.Originally posted by Inzaghi:i think bad guys have more to explore..n they're mysterial..u cant catch hold of their mind n acts..hence, they can prove as a challenge lor...![]()
Originally posted by choco B:No, it's not about attractiveness. It's about how well one gets over setbacks and still be able to approach the dating scene positively.
It's about giving oneself another chance and still being able to be true to oneself (whether you're the angel or the devil).
Doing so increases the chances of "finishing with a prize", so to speak.
U sure abt that? I'm beginning to wonder.....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:![]()
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princess should be counting her lucky stars now ..
/goes toward beary's directionsOriginally posted by the Bear:you go your way, i go mine
my conscience will be clear, she'll be happy, and so will i
not really lar...as i said b4, anything cant do over the board, must strike a balance...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:![]()
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princess should be counting her lucky stars now ..
Originally posted by Inzaghi:sometime u need to act as angel n as devil...![]()
counting her lucky stars cuz he is not pursuing her!!Originally posted by Shien:U sure abt that? I'm beginning to wonder.....![]()
maybe older gals wont wan tat anymore lar..they just wan a stable guy to settle down with...but for other gals, maybe diff lor..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i can do without such challenge. I dun enjoy playing wif fire.
Originally posted by Inzaghi:sometime u need to act as angel n as devil...![]()
OOOhh.... gd one! Okie cya guys later, makan timeOriginally posted by skinnybeanie:counting her lucky stars cuz he is not pursuing her!!
its always a game..Originally posted by choco B:Hahaha Inzaghi you're such a playah.
Sometimes you're the player and sometimes you get played. Such is life.
society is just not fair.Originally posted by Inzaghi:cos women got expiry date mah..ever heard guys being left on the shelf??..maybe have, but not as much as tat being used on women i guess..![]()
hubby view can liao...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:sad to say, society dun view women as such..
there will always be 2 sides of a person...the angel n the devil side..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:![]()
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so you are dr hyde and jerkll is it??
yup, one either love and give all to the one he/she loves or dun love at all. Where got such thing as treat nicely and badly at same time. I strongly believe tat love is wanting the person to be always happy, not sometimes happy sometimes not...Originally posted by the Bear:love just is... prize or no...
love... love her... damn the consequences!
that's my philosophy... there are no half measures...
so the lesson for all gals is get ur man fast!!!..if not u would be left on the shelf...of cos if u dun mind lar..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:society is just not fair.
Single man = swing bachelor
single woman = spinster / old maid
blah!!!
think it is the other way round, dr jekyll and mr hydeOriginally posted by skinnybeanie:![]()
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so you are dr hyde and jerkll is it??