week 7/7/03
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that's the greatest misconception.Originally posted by Inzaghi:cos most women believe they can change the guys thinking for them...
Well, referring back to your theory on women liking bad guys better. I think it's cuz the ladies think they can change the guys. But when they can't, they get stuck. -
good girl
gag cliche..
A woman marries a man, thinking she'll change him but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman, thinking she'll not change but she does.
dunno how true it isOriginally posted by Shien:Well if they do, then i think its dumb..... U can never change anyone, its never the right way. Accept the person as he/she is. If its meant to be, the person will change for u and for him/herself.
At least tats wat i believe in.... -
u can say it freely now, cos u haven met a bad guy who can put u into a no way back route..Originally posted by Shien:Well if they do, then i think its dumb..... U can never change anyone, its never the right way. Accept the person as he/she is. If its meant to be, the person will change for u and for him/herself.
At least tats wat i believe in....
the best way is to treat the gal nicely n badly at the same time...this way she will love n hate u n cant live without u...
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Originally posted by Inzaghi:u can say it freely now, cos u haven met a bad guy who can put u into a no way back route..
the best way is to treat the gal nicely n badly at the same time...this way she will love n hate u n cant live without u... 
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look at wat i wrote to shien...n how a guy to treat a gal...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:that's the greatest misconception.
Well, referring back to your theory on women liking bad guys better. I think it's cuz the ladies think they can change the guys. But when they can't, they get stuck.
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i disagree...
i'll spoil her as much as i can!
i plan to do that again if she and i get together againOriginally posted by Inzaghi:u can say it freely now, cos u haven met a bad guy who can put u into a no way back route..
the best way is to treat the gal nicely n badly at the same time...this way she will love n hate u n cant live without u... -
Way to go man!!!!Originally posted by the Bear:i disagree...
i'll spoil her as much as i can!
i plan to do that again if she and i get together again -
Nice guys finish last not always because the bad guys are more attractive or in demand. It's because nice guys haven't got the fight in them to rebound from failure and get back into the scene. They give up easily because they invest alot and subsequently fall hard with every relationship gone bad.
While bad guys are more nonchalant about failure - you miss one you try again. It's all in the attitude and perception.Originally posted by Inzaghi:this is not rubbish theory, its real lar..dun u know gals just like bad guys??...u never heard nice guys finish last meh??.. -
until this guy gets attached and settled, the gals will lament how come such nice guys dun come by earlier. nice guys are like good wine, they get better with age.Originally posted by Inzaghi:n have u seen gals praising this guy how nice is he n yet the gals never choose him n rather be with some bad guys... -
tat's wat i believe tooOriginally posted by Shien:Well if they do, then i think its dumb..... U can never change anyone, its never the right way. Accept the person as he/she is. If its meant to be, the person will change for u and for him/herself.
At least tats wat i believe in.... -
Originally posted by skinnybeanie:tat's wat i believe too ^5 girl!
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y give me this looks??..Originally posted by Shien: -
i think everybody changes as they age and with each new experience.Originally posted by the Bear:good girl
gag cliche..
A woman marries a man, thinking she'll change him but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman, thinking she'll not change but she does.
dunno how true it is
The crucial point is that when a couple undergoes such changes individually, do they get closer, or they drift further apart from each other's expectations. -
tat's the worst case!!..never never treat a gal too good, she will treat u like a doormat!!..trust me, all human beings are like tat, we take things for granted...Originally posted by the Bear:i disagree...
i'll spoil her as much as i can!
i plan to do that again if she and i get together again
sometime u need to hang the gal in balance..n makes her come back to u instead.. -
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she must also spoil u as much as u spoil her. a good r/s cannot be a one way traffic.Originally posted by the Bear:i disagree...
i'll spoil her as much as i can!
i plan to do that again if she and i get together again -
sad isn't it?
the good people treasure their relationship so that when it goes bad, they mourn and grieve...
those "bad" ones don't and just move on...
that's attractive?
hmm....
last or not, attractive or not, i choose to mourn if something i value beyond most people's ability to comprehend was to fade away..Originally posted by choco B:Nice guys finish last not always because the bad guys are more attractive or in demand. It's because nice guys haven't got the fight in them to rebound from failure and get back into the scene. They give up easily because they invest alot and subsequently fall hard with every relationship gone bad.
While bad guys are more nonchalant about failure - you miss one you try again. It's all in the attitude and perception. -
i think bad guys have more to explore..n they're mysterial..u cant catch hold of their mind n acts..hence, they can prove as a challenge lor...Originally posted by choco B:Nice guys finish last not always because the bad guys are more attractive or in demand. It's because nice guys haven't got the fight in them to rebound from failure and get back into the scene. They give up easily because they invest alot and subsequently fall hard with every relationship gone bad.
While bad guys are more nonchalant about failure - you miss one you try again. It's all in the attitude and perception. -
hm..... its back to the definition of "nice guys". what are "nice guys"?Originally posted by choco B:Nice guys finish last not always because the bad guys are more attractive or in demand. It's because nice guys haven't got the fight in them to rebound from failure and get back into the scene. They give up easily because they invest alot and subsequently fall hard with every relationship gone bad.
While bad guys are more nonchalant about failure - you miss one you try again. It's all in the attitude and perception. -
if a guy treats me badly all the time, i'll leave himOriginally posted by Inzaghi:u can say it freely now, cos u haven met a bad guy who can put u into a no way back route..
the best way is to treat the gal nicely n badly at the same time...this way she will love n hate u n cant live without u...
if he treats me nicely n badly at the same, i'll still leave him, just that it'll take me a longer while to decide. Come on, how to treat someone nicely and badly without confusing the lady??? it's like blowing hot and cold - so inconsistent! real bad theory! -
those gals are those who keep on dreaming tat their prince charming will come n sweep them off their feet...Originally posted by JLennon:until this guy gets attached and settled, the gals will lament how come such nice guys dun come by earlier. nice guys are like good wine, they get better with age.
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you go your way, i go mine
my conscience will be clear, she'll be happy, and so will iOriginally posted by Inzaghi:tat's the worst case!!..never never treat a gal too good, she will treat u like a doormat!!..trust me, all human beings are like tat, we take things for granted...
sometime u need to hang the gal in balance..n makes her come back to u instead.. -
keep it up! that's the way to goOriginally posted by the Bear:i disagree...
i'll spoil her as much as i can!
i plan to do that again if she and i get together again
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very well-said.Originally posted by choco B:Nice guys finish last not always because the bad guys are more attractive or in demand. It's because nice guys haven't got the fight in them to rebound from failure and get back into the scene. They give up easily because they invest alot and subsequently fall hard with every relationship gone bad.
While bad guys are more nonchalant about failure - you miss one you try again. It's all in the attitude and perception. -
sad to say, society dun view women as such..Originally posted by JLennon:until this guy gets attached and settled, the gals will lament how come such nice guys dun come by earlier. nice guys are like good wine, they get better with age.