week 23/6/03
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not even close to the real thing for those like me
the physical side without the emotional and psychic side is less than zero for me
i'm born in the wrong era...Originally posted by Inzaghi:truth is pple these days are just too busy or too tired to find it liao..since we busy making $$, we might as well buy it off the shelf.. -
tat one is pay $$ for some fun only lar...Originally posted by the Bear:not even close to the real thing for those like me
the physical side without the emotional and psychic side is less than zero for me
i'm born in the wrong era...
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still in the wrong era... not fun for me
but everyone marches to the beat of a different drummerOriginally posted by Inzaghi:tat one is pay $$ for some fun only lar... -
for example??Originally posted by Inzaghi:but these days intangible stuff are getting more tangible liao lar.... -
i can't understand men who do tat. But if they r single, i think it's stil not so bad.Originally posted by Inzaghi:tat one is pay $$ for some fun only lar... -
beanie, should read the threads about ladies choosing their bfs in terms of what car he drives, what he does for a living, how rich the guy is.. stuff like that...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:for example??
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r/s??..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:for example?? -
u r siting in the trading floor, u should know better than me...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i can't understand men who do tat. But if they r single, i think it's stil not so bad.
so u think pple like me can go lar?... -
its getting more common these days..Originally posted by the Bear:beanie, should read the threads about ladies choosing their bfs in terms of what car he drives, what he does for a living, how rich the guy is.. stuff like that... -
can't deny such ladies exist. But then, there are also guys who choose gfs in terms of vital stats and looks. I know of guys who adds on the extra condition tat the prospective gf should be earning well so that can contribute towards his aspiration for higher living standards.Originally posted by the Bear:beanie, should read the threads about ladies choosing their bfs in terms of what car he drives, what he does for a living, how rich the guy is.. stuff like that...
the bottom line is whether we ourselves wanna be caught in tat trend. For me, i'm out of it. True love is still tops on my list -
Originally posted by Inzaghi:r/s??..
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u can buy r/s...Originally posted by skinnybeanie: -
i know what u meant, but then, not all traders like tat lah.Originally posted by Inzaghi:u r siting in the trading floor, u should know better than me...
so u think pple like me can go lar?...
For singles, i do not violently object to them paying $ for such pleasure, but have to admit i tend to be biase agst them. Morally, it's just not right. -
of cos not all lar..but quite a few lor..i saw some of their bills b4, can be quite ex sia....heheOriginally posted by skinnybeanie:i know what u meant, but then, not all traders like tat lah.
For singles, i do not violently object to them paying $ for such pleasure, but have to admit i tend to be biase agst them. Morally, it's just not right.
for single, i dun object at all..i think they're qualified to do tat, cos they have no one to answer for..moreover, have u think of if they whole life cant get partner, wat's next???...
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to me, a relationship bought by money is not worth having at all. Might as well keep my money in the bank.Originally posted by Inzaghi:u can buy r/s... -
walk life's journey alone
but again, that's me...
oh, if you guys can, drop by a thread by this girl whose bf is "going to marry someone else" under pressure from his folks..
i think it's for real and she's pretty distraught... try to help positively?
got many PMs asking for a listening ear and help already... i tried my best.. maybe a lady's or other's positive words would be helpful also?Originally posted by Inzaghi:for single, i dun object at all..i think they're qualified to do tat, cos they have no one to answer for..moreover, have u think of if they whole life cant get partner, wat's next???... -
i think i'm of different school of thot from you. Single or married, paying $ for sexual pleasure is morally not right. The only difference it, being married, one have to be accountable to one's partner.Originally posted by Inzaghi:of cos not all lar..but quite a few lor..i saw some of their bills b4, can be quite ex sia....hehe
for single, i dun object at all..i think they're qualified to do tat, cos they have no one to answer for..moreover, have u think of if they whole life cant get partner, wat's next???... -
as much as u dislike, there're more n more pple into it these days......n how u see those pple spending 20K to go have a viet wife??..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:to me, a relationship bought by money is not worth having at all. Might as well keep my money in the bank. -
hmm, maybe diff lar, cos think i m rather open for diff acts lor...i think the only qualified person to do tat are those who are single n unattached..even those attached i will say they arent qualified lor....but den how much is moral worth these days??..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i think i'm of different school of thot from you. Single or married, paying $ for sexual pleasure is morally not right. The only difference it, being married, one have to be accountable to one's partner.
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how much are morals worth?
more than you can even begin to imagine.. they are what you are.. the very fibre of your being.. to lose them is to become less than human, less than animal.. because we are sentient and we can choose right from wrong.. yet ignore it, is to become less than animal which is led only by instinct.
the cost of personal morality? your very soul....Originally posted by Inzaghi:hmm, maybe diff lar, cos think i m rather open for diff acts lor...i think the only qualified person to do tat are those who are single n unattached..even those attached i will say they arent qualified lor....but den how much is moral worth these days??.. -
only we can quantify moral...Originally posted by the Bear:how much are morals worth?
more than you can even begin to imagine.. they are what you are.. the very fibre of your being.. to lose them is to become less than human, less than animal.. because we are sentient and we can choose right from wrong.. yet ignore it, is to become less than animal which is led only by instinct.
the cost of personal morality? your very soul.... -
i posted liao. Told her tat i personally think that since this man can't even make his own decision on his marriage (which is suppose to be the most impt decision) then he's probably not worth the effort of keeping. I fear that even he manages to convince his parents that this poor lady is the one he wanna marry, chances are they'll continue to his and indirectly her life after their marriage. And also, she can't actually pressurised him into marrying him, and thus risk ruining his relationship with his parents. It is for him to decide.Originally posted by the Bear:walk life's journey alone
but again, that's me...
oh, if you guys can, drop by a thread by this girl whose bf is "going to marry someone else" under pressure from his folks..
i think it's for real and she's pretty distraught... try to help positively?
got many PMs asking for a listening ear and help already... i tried my best.. maybe a lady's or other's positive words would be helpful also? -
i know. but the statistics doesn't make it a right thing to do.Originally posted by Inzaghi:as much as u dislike, there're more n more pple into it these days......n how u see those pple spending 20K to go have a viet wife??..
But i have to state that in such cases, i m not so biased, as ultimately they are married and love might blossom. But i still dun agree to paying money for those one-nite pleasure -
rightly so, but come to think of it, 20K isnt a small amt..maybe the govt should give some tax relief on tat...Originally posted by skinnybeanie:i know. but the statistics doesn't make it a right thing to do.
But i have to state that in such cases, i m not so biased, as ultimately they are married and love might blossom. But i still dun agree to paying money for those one-nite pleasure
wat if no need pay $$ for one nit pleasure??..or those lovers case??...same right??.. -
u will be surprised tat thr are still many who value moral values.Originally posted by Inzaghi:hmm, maybe diff lar, cos think i m rather open for diff acts lor...i think the only qualified person to do tat are those who are single n unattached..even those attached i will say they arent qualified lor....but den how much is moral worth these days??..
Have you ever wondered if your future gf is to ask you whether you've paid for sex, what will your answer be, assuming if you had done it? do you worry that the "yes" answer will put you in a bad light?
Or let's turn the table, if you are to ask your prospective gf the same qn, and her answer is "yes". Do you feel that your impression of her will be discounted??