ladies, which wann will u chose...
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ladies, chose between the senarios, which u wanna be after u get married.
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Dun have to work Have to look after kids Every morning have to go market and bring children to sch husband is a blue collar worker, earn ard 1200-1800 per mth Have to cook at least 2 meals per day Lead a very very simple lifestyle Stay in HDB 3 or 4 room flat Maybe stay with in-laws or go to yr in-laws or mum's place every weekend Maybe if u save hard enuff able to go for whort holiday to say malaysia or thailand every 1 or 2 years.
Basically 1 offers u a very simple lifestyle, u dun have to worry abt $$ coz wif yr simple lifestyle u be able to live on without much worries. and u basically talk and dress like aunties downstair coffeeshop.
2) Both u and husband are married Both or either one of the couple holds high post at work Both or either is a white-collar worker Dun have to look after children coz got maid/relative to look after Able to provide yr children with whatever they want Both u and husband are very veyr busy ppl, with no time to look after yr kids..
2 offers u a package that allows u to enjoy life, be able to dress in powerful suit etc etc..
but u do not have time for yr family members and usually lose out a lot when havin family outings.
u only can compensate yr children's time with money.
Both senarios gives possible chances that yr husband will commit adultery and also yr children being led astray.. health situation be the same
no tai tai senario here coz that what we all dream of..... -
I always believe family values is every important, cause i myself doesn't have one; I would like my furture generation to have a place they call home!
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marriage? what marriage?
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Originally posted by cwill:I always believe family values is every important, cause i myself doesn't have one; I would like my furture generation to have a place they call home!
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Both scenerios i also dun like leh.... or maybe, i also duno wat i want. hmm..
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be bounded together....Originally posted by www:marriage? what marriage? -
also dun like both but most sg case senario is like this leh.......Originally posted by Churra:Both scenerios i also dun like leh.... or maybe, i also duno wat i want. hmm.. -
be different
be something that is not the norm...Originally posted by Qoo`~`:also dun like both but most sg case senario is like this leh....... -
quite hard to choose..both have pros n cons..bt if the kids will turn astray..of cuz its better to be huang lian po..bt bt..
bt....if be huang lian po liaoz..later hubby will zhao sai..then hosey liaoz..go out work can earn more money too..cuz wad if one day the hubby kena retrenched?
aiya best is dun get married..go er mei shan
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I have to work. Need to do something solely my own. So it's 2, although not in its entirety.
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tha's y hard decision here.. was thinking abt what will happen to me in a few years time.. if i gona chose 1 then i dun have to study and work hard liao...... coz in the end stay at home and look after kids like that the olden days ah ma say: "gers no need to study so hard one, one day u will get married and stay at home....."
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Why rolls eyes?? I can be a good husband and father if really when the times come for me to commit!!Originally posted by Churra: -
whois the "lucky" guy??Originally posted by Qoo`~`:tha's y hard decision here.. was thinking abt what will happen to me in a few years time.. if i gona chose 1 then i dun have to study and work hard liao...... coz in the end stay at home and look after kids like that the olden days ah ma say: "gers no need to study so hard one, one day u will get married and stay at home....." -
can choose 3..
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the day when I am eligible to withdraw my CPF...? HAHAHAOriginally posted by cwill:Why rolls eyes?? I can be a good husband and father if really when the times come for me to commit!! -
should ask yourself why u wanna get married in the 1st place?Originally posted by Qoo`~`:tha's y hard decision here.. was thinking abt what will happen to me in a few years time.. if i gona chose 1 then i dun have to study and work hard liao...... coz in the end stay at home and look after kids like that the olden days ah ma say: "gers no need to study so hard one, one day u will get married and stay at home....."
be independent.....adopt a child....stay with your parents....then will have more disposable income... -
hahah.. still yet to be found....Originally posted by cwill:whois the "lucky" guy?? -
i am good luck carebearOriginally posted by cwill:whois the "lucky" guy?? 
