why i have a feeling thread starter is a filipna maid :D
Originally posted by mlmersrlosers:why i have a feeling thread starter is a filipna maid
your feeling is probably wrong..
men go through different stages:
Stage A: live a single, adventurous, unstable life. may or may not have gf, not committed.
Stage B: live a secure, ordinary life. usually has a wife or stable gf.
unfortunately, TS's husband has gone from A to B back to A again. Once he experiences enough of A, he might go back to B. but dont count on it. and probably not to TS.
Of course, its possible to live an A-B hybrid lifestyle, but that at the very, very least, requires the gf/wife to also be adventurous/willing like him, which TS is not. and husband also probably dosent want that.
The thread starter should just move on to another r/s... the way I see it, no point salvaging the r/s... r/s is a game... you gotta play it the right way... if you do it wrong, the more you try to salvage the r/s, the more the guy will run away...
Move on and find a better man.
Hi,
I don't think having married him would have solved the problem speakoutfor... It can all end up with nasty divorce. You don't marry someone just to keep her/him under control... You have a wierd conception of marriage!!
Devoted gal, you seem like a nice girl...If you may think he should still have feelings for you, take your distance from him (don't call, don't email) and get out with your friends and if you have friends in common make sure they will repeat to him. Crying all day, calling him and begging can only have the opposite effect on him comforting him that he made the right decision by dumping you... if you seem joyous and show yourself at your best (I know it resquest a LOT of efforts right now...), he might think he made a mistake and try to get you back... As long as he does not have a new girlfriend, it's still possible... If not, I know you do not want to hear this now but I am sure you will meet a nice guy who will love you in return... Sometimes it takes us a while to realise we were with the wrong person. The last thing you want is to be with someone you love but does not love you in return...
Good luck!
Move on, you can have a better life without him.
As for you depression, quit smoking weed and get a good holiday! Your too stressed, prehaps a nice holiday at the nature will help.
now i know why some couples fly photographer arroplane, all the more reason for phtographers to request a deposit just in case got this type of fly aeroplane even on marriage 1. we photographers alos got our own scheduling, book yours pushed away the rest, who less income. firm, deposit no matter what.