Originally posted by angel7030:
Hi, glad that you finally get liberated from Love, and please do not read too much of those love guru books, it can make one sell and sold his soul, tho men are from Mars and women from Venus, but please, not all men are from Mars, most are from some Bukit Timah hill or pulau Ubin and some from Buangkok green.
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You just have to be someone whom she falls for initially when you guys started being together. Be a gentleman, initiate contact with her first. If you made her angry or have done something wrong that caused the break up, apologies and show and sincerity. I personally believe that when a woman loves, the love never die down, so show that you still care for her, she'll reciprocate your love if she still has you in her heart.
Just would like to share my experience.
Dont give up on yourself. Work on yourself, you dont have to prove to her, just prove to yourself.
I admit I am a player, I dont really cherish girls once I got them. I played with girls emotions and erm..u know u know.
Anyway, my brief story is I dumped my my ex, as I was already cheating behind her emotionally, seeing another girl. She beg and cried, but my decision was firm, as I wanted to try new things.
I met my another girl soon after, she put her heart and soul and really love me, but after the honeymood period died off, I treated her like shit, didnt shower her with attention etc. Soon, she was emotionally detaching herself from me and left. Yeah, I did the shitty begging all that. Its human nature.
If you really love someone, let them go. You never know one day you might be friends again, now is the time, to reflect what you did wrong, work on it, improve on yourself. And now you have free time, improve on your job, studies, running etc.
Happy people brings in more happy people, be like the guy she once knew or even better, but dont be a player! I gonna learn my lesson and treat the next one(could be your ex, u never know what the future holds) with respect.
My point is, learn from the mistake, improve on yourself. And years later, down the road, you will just laugh at how stupid we were back then.
Originally posted by IjustMetYou:Just would like to share my experience.
Dont give up on yourself. Work on yourself, you dont have to prove to her, just prove to yourself.
I admit I am a player, I dont really cherish girls once I got them. I played with girls emotions and erm..u know u know.Anyway, my brief story is I dumped my my ex, as I was already cheating behind her emotionally, seeing another girl. She beg and cried, but my decision was firm, as I wanted to try new things.
I met my another girl soon after, she put her heart and soul and really love me, but after the honeymood period died off, I treated her like shit, didnt shower her with attention etc. Soon, she was emotionally detaching herself from me and left. Yeah, I did the shitty begging all that. Its human nature.If you really love someone, let them go. You never know one day you might be friends again, now is the time, to reflect what you did wrong, work on it, improve on yourself. And now you have free time, improve on your job, studies, running etc.
Happy people brings in more happy people, be like the guy she once knew or even better, but dont be a player! I gonna learn my lesson and treat the next one(could be your ex, u never know what the future holds) with respect.
My point is, learn from the mistake, improve on yourself. And years later, down the road, you will just laugh at how stupid we were back then.
that last paragraph... makes extreme sense
Originally posted by IjustMetYou:
My point is, learn from the mistake, improve on yourself. And years later, down the road, you will just laugh at how stupid we were back then.
Really? then the cheapo couple must be really laffing they got almost free solemnization (50 bucks only) photos taken. hahahah
I really is bobian, if i got more couples photos for solemnization or wedding i immediately deliete their photos from my portfolio alrerady
Originally posted by infernolord:Background.
-Ex kinda wooed me and made me fell for her.
-Very sweet and patient to me but i have my reserves and i did push our dates off a few times.
-Once I got impatient with her over silly matters but I promise to work out.-I always said the wrong things which lead her feel insecure.
-She initated break for no reasons, that when i started to miss her and really want her back.
I have tried
- beg, plead, text, email and do sweet gifts and video to apologise for 1st 2 weeks.
- Applied no contact for next 3 weeks. (she texted me to ask how i am on the 3rd week)
- Asked her out after that, she agreed but put aeroplanes for 4 times.
(Excuses like she was sick, the others due to work, cant meet up last min.) To be honest, i trusted her but if she is being sincere, she should at least suggest another date if she postpone right?)
Do i still hv a chance? these few weeks, I been working hard on those she told me. (go gym, study for a paper and get a new job). How i wish i hv a chance to tell her i cherish her, and she really motivated me with all these... argh. But she nv give me a chance and text me as if i was a stranger now.. Weird..
I really dislike men like you. You treat the girl like garbage because you're not ready to date or whatever and now you want to date her cause it's covenient for you ?
She's treating like a stranger because she doesn't like you. Learn from this mistake and avoid doing it again.
Dude, I think you need to just move on and find another girl who is more suitable for u
It seems you have some serious communication problems with girls.
First if you really like a girl you show her respect and you do not wait for her to leave you to let her know you loved her, but then I am not even sure you love her... maybe you just got hurt because she left you and your ego did not like it too much!!
You said she has no reason to leave you... yes she had! You just wrote you pushed a few dates yourself, then got impatient with her and then told things that made her feel insecure. Hey man, when you love a woman you have to show her and you didn't for sure... It seems she's a nice girl since she called you after 3 weeks to check how you were but sorry to say she does not seem to be in love with you, I think she just called you as she felt sympathy...
Try to work on your behaviour/communication issues and next time be nice to the girl, maybe she will not leave you then!
the part where you said
She initated break for no reasons, that when i started to miss her and really want her back.
It works the other way around too. Just move on with your life and continue dating many girls. that's the best chance of getting her back.
One way to win ex back is the naked man. Be clothed when she's looking, then when she's not, quickly take off everything, then when she sees you again, the mere shock of seeing a naked man will make her so freaking wet.
Just show her you are sincerely sorry? Few girls can be completely unmoved by something like that...
Originally posted by Uraniumfish:One way to win ex back is the naked man. Be clothed when she's looking, then when she's not, quickly take off everything, then when she sees you again, the mere shock of seeing a naked man will make her so freaking wet.
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Originally posted by Discord:Just show her you are sincerely sorry? Few girls can be completely unmoved by something like that...
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Originally posted by infernolord:Background.
-Ex kinda wooed me and made me fell for her.
-Very sweet and patient to me but i have my reserves and i did push our dates off a few times.
-Once I got impatient with her over silly matters but I promise to work out.-I always said the wrong things which lead her feel insecure.
-She initated break for no reasons, that when i started to miss her and really want her back.
I have tried
- beg, plead, text, email and do sweet gifts and video to apologise for 1st 2 weeks.
- Applied no contact for next 3 weeks. (she texted me to ask how i am on the 3rd week)
- Asked her out after that, she agreed but put aeroplanes for 4 times.
(Excuses like she was sick, the others due to work, cant meet up last min.) To be honest, i trusted her but if she is being sincere, she should at least suggest another date if she postpone right?)
Do i still hv a chance? these few weeks, I been working hard on those she told me. (go gym, study for a paper and get a new job). How i wish i hv a chance to tell her i cherish her, and she really motivated me with all these... argh. But she nv give me a chance and text me as if i was a stranger now.. Weird..
Guys come up to me very often for advice on a particular girl. I always tell them this:
If you have to ask how to fix a problem with a girl, it's already too late.
Unless both parties (i.e., marriage counselling) are willing to work on it. If it's one guy asking for advice on how to get a girl, you've already lost the frame from the start. The only way is to climb out, instead of digging deeper.
I think this TS is also putting the pussy up on a pedestal. Don't just build the pussy up.
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