In love with a gay

• Againstmadness

  16 Dec 11, 19:50

  i think i am going mad soon... i found myself liking a guy who is gay. he behaves very femininely. but on other times, he can be very strong-headed and act tough & rough. i dont even know why i would have a crush on him... recently i feel that he starts to sense it too and whenever our eyes meet we would both blush. what can i do about it??? i am a girl btw...

• FireIce

  16 Dec 11, 19:52

  confess to him and hope he turns back

• Darkness_hacker99

  16 Dec 11, 20:38

  good luck

• Seth T.

  16 Dec 11, 20:52

  Maybe he feigned gay just to get close to you? I don't know but I've never seen gay guys blush because of girls.
• Veggie Bao

  16 Dec 11, 20:53

  If he is not a bisexual, but a pure gay......then you have no chance.......but dont worry.....he can be your friend.......some girls like to have gay male friends....that is all you can have with a pure gay......Good luck,

• winsomeea

  16 Dec 11, 20:53

  Originally posted by Seth T.:

  Maybe he feigned gay just to get close to you? I don’t know but I’ve never seen gay guys blush because of girls.

   

  May be.   I have seen gay guy blushed but not with a gal.      

• Veggie Bao

  16 Dec 11, 20:57

  Btw, do you even know he is gay..?

  Did he ever tell anyone..?

  Because behaving sissy-like is not necessarily gay......

  I used to have a senior who was sissy, he was a dancer.....But he's not gay.

• Rock^Star

  16 Dec 11, 21:55

  Originally posted by Veggie Bao:

  Btw, do you even know he is gay..?

  Did he ever tell anyone..?

  Because behaving sissy-like is not necessarily gay......

  I used to have a senior who was sissy, he was a dancer.....But he's not gay.

  Congrats. Means you're not gay cos ur gaydar epic fail. But on the other hand, it's not something that is too difficult for the average person too.

• DailyFreeGames.com

  17 Dec 11, 05:07

  Originally posted by Againstmadness:

  i think i am going mad soon... i found myself liking a guy who is gay. he behaves very femininely. but on other times, he can be very strong-headed and act tough & rough. i dont even know why i would have a crush on him... recently i feel that he starts to sense it too and whenever our eyes meet we would both blush. what can i do about it??? i am a girl btw...

  
  go for it! gays have that extra sensitivity not found in other people...

• Againstmadness

  17 Dec 11, 07:48

  although he did not say out directly that "i am a gay", but he did said that he wanted a guy to be his lap dancer and he gets very agitated if we talk bad about gays in front of him.

  some of the times, his actions are very sissy, with their signature hand posture and he sits with legs crossed like ladies.

  but on other times, he walk and talk like a man. i duno whether is he pretending to be either one or even both, but he is good at acting and i know him through drama.

  he told people that he had never had a gf before and he have lots of girl-friends. he even joked that one of them always greet him by throwing herself at him and hugging tightly but he got no feeling.

  and dailyfreegames.com, i like him because of his sensitivity, never found in straight guys. because i am quite manly myself (although not a butch), sometimes i wonder if it is the soft and caring nature i saw in him??

   

• Lokey

  17 Dec 11, 08:45

  Opposite attracts.Guessing is useless. Ask (indirectly).

• DailyFreeGames.com

  17 Dec 11, 10:57

  Originally posted by Againstmadness:

  and dailyfreegames.com, i like him because of his sensitivity, never found in straight guys. because i am quite manly myself (although not a butch), sometimes i wonder if it is the soft and caring nature i saw in him??

   

  
  i am so attracted to manly girls!

• Againstmadness

  17 Dec 11, 21:29

  Originally posted by Lokey:

  Opposite attracts.Guessing is useless. Ask (indirectly).

  
  i really dont dare to ask. he made me lost a bit of trust in him. because i told him something about myself and he told our friends. although it wasn't anything important, it still made me embarassed for awhile.

  although the bitchyness can be forgiven, but i really don't know why i would like him. feels like slapping myself...

• Dalforce 1941

  17 Dec 11, 21:38

  Originally posted by Againstmadness:

  although the bitchyness can be forgiven, but i really don't know why i would like him. feels like slapping myself...

  Is he handsome?

   

  

• gunner77

  17 Dec 11, 21:46

  flash him your tits and see he reacts?

  I mean erect.

• Againstmadness

  17 Dec 11, 21:48

  Originally posted by Dalforce 1941:

  Is he handsome?

   

  

  
  not the models and superstars standard definitely. if so he would have gotten the rest of his female friends attention but they all treat him simply as a friend or probably their "girl-friend".

  i don't get attracted to someone based on looks. character matters the most to me. i like his caring and sensitive personality. however i wonder why would i fall for a gay. its so contradictory because i am a straight girl, and somemore i know he is a gay, but i still fall for him.

• Againstmadness

  17 Dec 11, 21:54

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  flash him your tits and see he reacts?

  I mean erect.

  wow... what if instead of erecting, it inverts inside??

  i heard that guys only react to the girl they like. if other girls flashes they might not get erected. is it true?

• gunner77

  18 Dec 11, 01:55

  Originally posted by Againstmadness:

  wow... what if instead of erecting, it inverts inside??

  i heard that guys only react to the girl they like. if other girls flashes they might not get erected. is it true?

  
  There is no such thing as invert inside.

  Not true, but if u flash and he does not erect, confirm plus chop he is gay!

  Then maybe you can get closer to him by talking about how he loves dick penetrating his asshole. Based on your description of him he looks like the receiver rather than the giver.

  

• Againstmadness

  18 Dec 11, 22:56

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  
  Based on your description of him he looks like the receiver rather than the giver.

  
  yeah he is more of the receiver than the giver.

  i think i am sick in my mind... felt disgusted that i fell for him. seriously something is wrong with me!

• benqepson

  18 Dec 11, 23:25

  its ok. you are normal.

• Againstmadness

  19 Dec 11, 00:27

  i feel like erasing off the feelings i have for him, but i still like him. i really hate it and i feel so disgusted when i see him behaving in feminine way. but i really like him when he is like a normal guy. perhaps i could only wait for the day our contact ends... then maybe i will forget him.

• [imdestinyz]

  19 Dec 11, 10:34

  the contact wont end if u cant set ur mind to it.... are u sure u are clear about ur own liking in the first place?

• Neocl1

  19 Dec 11, 10:49

  careful of bisexuals..

• maxsee

  19 Dec 11, 10:57

  Aiyah gay also got dick mah....maybe u the woman to convert his sexuality leh....strip urself naked n ask him poke u....maybe he enjoy and u 2 end up together leh...life u never knows woh....><"

• [imdestinyz]

  19 Dec 11, 11:00

  ... is sex the only thing u ppl tink about?