Am i doing too much or is it normal ?
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alright here`s the problem .
One month ago i met this gal who was my friend`s friend . She was kina hot and all plus my friend told me she was kina interested in me .So i started chasing her . On v-day i bought her a bag which cost 250. And treated her to a meal 100+ . Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her . She then told me she needed more time to me my gf. Ok so i decided to give her more time and i`m still chasing her . I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way and i have go through erpS just to fetch her home we wont even go out and eat or watever i just go and fetch her home like a driver. Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?
I totally went blank. So my question is do you guys out there think that i`ve done to much to give up now ? Or is that normal in chasing girls .
And if guys had such bad experience pls share it out so i can judge for myself and see if i`ve done too much.
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Originally posted by Karma88:
Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?
Hmmm..this might very well be her subtle signal for you to retreat and find a new target. -
HAHA TS, DID IT FELT LIKE THIS IN YOUR FACE?
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i`m not asking if i should give up now .
i`m just asking did i do too much for a gal who is not even my gf ?
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its people like you that spoil the market rates.
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Are you prepared to continue the same level of indulgence on her AFTER she becomes your GF ?
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Originally posted by The Showstopper:
HAHA TS, DID IT FELT LIKE THIS IN YOUR FACE?
Dont bastard him la. -
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:
Dont bastard him la.Ya lorh... Don't so mean lah.
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Originally posted by Karma88:
alright here`s the problem .
One month ago i met this gal who was my friend`s friend . She was kina hot and all plus my friend told me she was kina interested in me .So i started chasing her . On v-day i bought her a bag which cost 250. And treated her to a meal 100+ . Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her . She then told me she needed more time to me my gf. Ok so i decided to give her more time and i`m still chasing her . I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way and i have go through erpS just to fetch her home we wont even go out and eat or watever i just go and fetch her home like a driver. Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?
I totally went blank. So my question is do you guys out there think that i`ve done to much to give up now ? Or is that normal in chasing girls .
And if guys had such bad experience pls share it out so i can judge for myself and see if i`ve done too much.
she might not love u so much as u love her. hmm u should change a strategy not meet everyday 1 week 1 time or 2 time make her call u lo i always waiting for people call me or girl love me more 1 or sure goner or if really love a girl don't do too much also slowly can already. -
Originally posted by jojobeach:
Are you prepared to continue the same level of indulgence on her AFTER she becomes your GF ?
The same thing came on my mind - I'm glad you raised it up, jojo.
Either way, I still think you don't know the courting game, TS.
Quoting you:
- Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her
- I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way
- I totally went blankYou appeared to be coming on too strong, too aggressive and that is not attractive; and to be honest, guys whom only know how to play Mr. Nice fail most of the time
And even at the last opportunity, the last moment, when she asked that question - you didn't grab the chance to present your case.
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Originally posted by Karma88:
alright here`s the problem .
One month ago i met this gal who was my friend`s friend . She was kina hot and all plus my friend told me she was kina interested in me .So i started chasing her . On v-day i bought her a bag which cost 250. And treated her to a meal 100+ . Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her . She then told me she needed more time to me my gf. Ok so i decided to give her more time and i`m still chasing her . I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way and i have go through erpS just to fetch her home we wont even go out and eat or watever i just go and fetch her home like a driver. Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?
I totally went blank. So my question is do you guys out there think that i`ve done to much to give up now ? Or is that normal in chasing girls .
And if guys had such bad experience pls share it out so i can judge for myself and see if i`ve done too much.
The answer she is looking for: Don't be silly, I am treating you this way because I want to. You are not an investment, just someone I want to be nice to. It doesn't matter to me if I can "get back anything", the very opportunity of being able to be nice to you, is the best return that I seek.The fact that you went black = next better player please
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ask for ur money back.
tell her u got receipts for everything
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Originally posted by wisefool83:
The answer she is looking for: Don't be silly, I am treating you this way because I want to. You are not an investment, just someone I want to be nice to. It doesn't matter to me if I can "get back anything", the very opportunity of being able to be nice to you, is the best return that I seek.The fact that you went black = next better player please
Can do, but not the best -
Originally posted by Detached:
Can do, but not the best
What would be a better way to present his case? -
Originally posted by cherrycola:
What would be a better way to present his case?Only a fool teaches others his tricks
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if a $250 bag and a $100 meal is something easily affordable to you based on your income, then it is normal.
if it is too much, then you are over doing it.
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Originally posted by Detached:
Only a fool teaches others his tricks
Haha. U will not be teaching but educating me instead
PM me
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Haha. U will not be teaching but educating me instead
You don't need those! -
Originally posted by Karma88:
alright here`s the problem .
One month ago i met this gal who was my friend`s friend . She was kina hot and all plus my friend told me she was kina interested in me .So i started chasing her . On v-day i bought her a bag which cost 250. And treated her to a meal 100+ . Plus i drop her a msg telling her how i feel towards her . She then told me she needed more time to me my gf. Ok so i decided to give her more time and i`m still chasing her . I would pick her up from work everyday even though it`s not on the way and i have go through erpS just to fetch her home we wont even go out and eat or watever i just go and fetch her home like a driver. Suddenly today she told me wat would u do if you didn`t get anything back from me after u have done so much ?
I totally went blank. So my question is do you guys out there think that i`ve done to much to give up now ? Or is that normal in chasing girls .
And if guys had such bad experience pls share it out so i can judge for myself and see if i`ve done too much.
u are such a sweet guy
but it appears she's not interested in u as a bf, that's why so worried that you are so good to her
maybe it's time for u to tone down the 'nice-ness', be nice but not so nice and see how it goes
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Originally posted by eagle:
if a $250 bag and a $100 meal is something easily affordable to you based on your income, then it is normal.
if it is too much, then you are over doing it.
finally someone answered TS question...anyway i feel that u are doing too much to her...
just my opinion.. my own one.. which could be very wrong..
i think that even if u can afford such things.. u are still doing too much..however its alright..u can try to be nice to her.. but then no need give such expensive stuff...
ok unless if she thinks that 250 bag is nothing but cheap stuff...
IA
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i think you are doing too much.
you have done so much for her even though your are not her bf, how are u gg to do better next time when she's ur gf? i think u need to slow down :)
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these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :
1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head. -
Originally posted by sinicker:
these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :
1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head.What do you mean by that?
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Originally posted by sinicker:
these are phrases to describe what you've experienced :
1. u are a roberto.
2. u tio chop carrot head.
Hmm.. I wouldn't say that the girl deliberately took him as a roberto right from the start..In his case, it appears that the girl 'suffered a gradual decrease in her interest level in him'.. I could imagine if I were in her shoes, I probably would feel that this whole thing with this guy is so mundane and unexciting..
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
ask for ur money back.
tell her u got receipts for everything
