Ah Ma and Ah Gong...
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..who say its about our forum's Ah Ma and Ah Gong?
Lets talk about our grandparents, what stories you can tell us here, and what legacy or memories they left behind. -
my ah ma can cook nice dishes..... she took care of me since i'm born.... cos my mum's working... so i'm much closer to her....
my ah gong, we not close leh... not much memories of him... only noe he like chinese tea n he smoke..... -
ah gong = sgboy2004???
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Originally posted by sgboy2004:ah gong = sgboy2004???
Me go buy coffin for sgboy, cheapest one around.... -
both my ah ma and ah gong not here liaoz.....
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dun waste money.. just get a straw mat can liao.....Originally posted by laurence82:
Me go buy coffin for sgboy, cheapest one around.... -
i haven't seen my grandpa for years..coz im not allowed to visit him..due to some personal problems..he's staying wif my uncle..and they belong to those "high class" society..so they dun allow me to visit MY grandpa..coz im not fit to be in their house..
i finally saw my grandpa on 02/02/03..he's lying in his coffin..tt's my greatest regret..within seconds..tears filled my eyes..im speechless when my mom called me in the middle of the nite..telling me the truth..im juz speechless..
my grandpa will always gave me ang pow during the CNY no matter wat it is..even if tt means he will be starving for days..he still put his last cent into the ang pow..telling me no matter wat..i hv to accept..as to bless me..
thinking back..it's been years..since i received his blessing and sat on his lap..i'll always be making fun of him..wanna him to make me my fav soup..keke..
but..nv will i noe tt when i finally able to see him..all i ever saw is his cold..lonely body inside the coffin..
days and nights..i kept him company..toking to him..but..i can't touch him..even if his cold hands..i juz feel......there's a sense of sorrows.....
every once a while..i'll make a trip down wif Dpro to offer a joss stick to my grandpa..wif my cousin's help..otherwise..dun think im able to step into the house..but sadly..his maid told everything to my uncle and auntie..and im being warned by them..
on 02/02/04..i intend to pay him a visit..bringing his fav dish..but..im being rejected by my uncle and auntie..
i can't help it but think..why..? how come family members will become like tt..? i juz wanna to tell my grandpa..i miss u.. -
/pat pat angel's back
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thanx..~ -
my birth date was my ah ma death date... so was label as a jinx since young by my relatives... used to hate her when young...but nw... who cares... she will b some1 inever get to see... more of a stranger maybe....
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Well, my paternal grandpa passed away while my grandma was carrying my dad in her tummy.
Now only my grandma still alive, she and my granduncle (my grandpa elder brother, my grandpa is the second in the family) and his wife aka my grandaunt are well over 90, and going strong.
Well, nowadays try to go back to my hometown as much as possible. to visit my grandma, me scared of losing her. She took care of me and my siblings when we were young, and my parents both worked. Used to walk with her on Friday mornings on hills, and me travel with her from Segamat to JB on buses, both of us onli to visit my aunt.
As for my maternal grandparents both passed away during my pri sec school years, so not much memory of them. Just know their history from my mother, like my grandma use to study SCGS, that ime wearing what they call 'rickshaw puller clothes', thats what their uniform resembles, and my grandma and her family use to live at Cuppage Road, i think the terrace house is still there, where they converted into restaurants (was it called Food Street or something?)
Sigh, cherish and respect your lao ren jia while they are still with us...or else will regret. -
calling for me ? and my ah ma ?