i hate to use busy to describe my present life.
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i'm so lucky to have a sunday to clear my thoughts on what i've to do the coming week. this week is spent helping to arrange 40000 domino tiles for our programme. it's trial run, can't get volunteers so we have to do the trial test ourselves.from 10 am to 9 pm daily. no time and budget to take a cab back to office. thus my 2nd programme entertainment news's preparation was delayed. i've got 3 programmes to handle and really no time to even think. skipped dinner quite often 'cos too tired to eat. thanx to my partner, willing to drive all the way to imm to have dinner and sent me back home.
as i need to coordinate the students for their filming. it's hard to get them as not all of them carry handphone. one night i was trying to get this student so urgently as there is a sudden change of venue. but when i called his hostel, they refused to page for him. then i remembered i missed a call as i was walking back home, i checked it and it's either a pte call or a call from a public phone. it must have been that kid i'm looking for. i felt so shi1 bai4 having to miss such an impt call. maybe it's becos of the stress and the empty stomach, i just get furious and all of sudden i broke down. i kept on asking myself if it's a problem of me not used to this job or i really can't handle 3 jobs at the same time or is it due to the fact that this is not the job for me.
for the whole week, the moment i see my partner, the only things i talked about is my hectic job, complicated office politics. it's not fair thus yesterday after clearing the dominoes, i just try to talk less about my job. on friday, he accompanied me at Imm waiting for me to finish laying the tiles. we left at 12 midnight and the rest were still laying until 3 am. i know they will talk behind my back but i just can't take it anymore.
i find that in a big organisation like this, you are responsible for your hunger, your stress, your health, your work, your programmes.
a friend said, if it's dj work, no matter how tired, how unbearable, i will take it as a challenge.
i'm trying to bear with it. 'cos i need the experience and the money (though not much) for my renovation.
i'm taking it a day at a time. when i'm very stress, i bring my chicken along. now, being research writer of entertainment prg is something i'm looking forward to. but my shen1 fen4 is different now. last time someone coordinate the interviews but now i have to coordinate them according to producer's wants. scolded by one record company's xuan1 chuan2 when my producer decides to cancel the filming suddenly.
i'm longing to meet my friends, like u. but meanwhile a half day rest , i would rather read a book, get enough sleep.
life is full of choices. i am planning a choice now. -
ym,
take care and dun overwork yourself if there's really so much things for you to do.......
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Tc great care of self horz....=l
dun skip dinner lorz..cos it is more imp then breakfast cos it will last u longer ani breakfast...=P even thought u all will thing at nite u'll slp wat can all the energy go to.....
save it 4 tml morning lorz....(for ppl like mi is like tt DUN TAKE BREAKFAST 1 lazy)
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Yupz.. Dun overstress urself.. just do ur best... Take care..
[This message has been edited by Jackyl (edited 18 March 2001).] -
wow! it sounds really really tough!! Do take care!
found this in one website
"Learn to Relax. Throughout the day, take "minibreaks." Sit-down and get comfortable, slowly take a deep breath in, hold it, and then exhale very slowly. At the same time, let your shoulder muscles droop, smile, and say something positive like, "I am r-e-l-a-x-e-d." Be sure to get sufficient rest at night. "
maybe this doesn't help much but maybe give it a try
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OR maybe this
"Talk to Friends. Friends can be good medicine. Daily doses of conversation, regular social engagements, and occasional sharing of deep feelings and thoughts can reduce stress quite nicely. " -
WoW! Jasmine u sounded 'da ren' huh?
Agreed with wat u said!
Yong Mei
try not to skip meals ok! mayb bring an apple
or a bar of biscuits with u cos' u need ongoing energy to complete ur "MISSION".
is good to busy .... u spend less n saved much. tt' wat's yur GOAL! (do reserve a room for us to have karaoke
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let yourself laugh more :p! get in touch wif whoever or even hug "HIM'.....a great way to relieve stress.
take 3 deep breaths, exhaling slowly, feel'g more relaxed.
no matter why, have times starring at the stars * * * * * *
before go to bed serve u a cup of warm milk (remember 'tt yen used to post in our old forum )
WE MISS U TOO jia you! -
I remembered years ago, I just had my dinner and one of my bosses, called me at home. Minutes later I was back at work, struggling with budgets, presentations etc, etc. We worked hard for almost 4 hours before we had supper and this was rewarding - taking breaks in between - we went back to work after that and I never got home till 3am. And my boss after sending me back, she stayed back in the workplace to complete the tailends.
This happened yearly - thank goodness not everyday! No matter how stressful that day would be, we took it step-by-step. We had choices - to forgo the whole idea or just leave it to others - we choose to do it stat!
It may not be easy to relax and breathe in between a tedious schedule - it may not be easy to make a choice - it may not be easy too to balance work and your life, your environment.
I could understand YM's cries and I am sure YM and all of us know that these are stressful and they seem so unbearable, but at the end of it, when you see the result, you'll be able to tell yourself, "I've made it at my best", strike a pose. If it is not the exact response, do not brood over it, it's not the end and we'll learn how to make a better grade.
I think we would welcome anyone who has their woes and cries and needed a place to 'talk', come over here at MeiCaiKouRou (all thanks to CCL), I guess the friends here would be able to 'virtually', and of course spiritually supporting YOU.
Peace -
humz..looking back at ur posted meg ....
humz seems like in e holidays.....y dun u call mi hehehe take up the part time job of urz...lessen ur working burden hehehe =P
mi spend tooooo much on cs over the holidays liaoz -
Take Care!
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Take care & just rememeber "Work Hard Also Must Play equally Hard" if not one self will malfunction one day even machines need to rest after a day's work!
Just stop everything if u think u are tired & cannot think any more go outside take a short stroll or a cup of coffee & then go back to work more or less i think it would refresh one self!Just my own opinion try it as u deem fit. -
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i can't say much cuz i'm damn busy myself. but all i can say is gambatte!!!!!!!!!
good thing you have your partner to support you.
don't stress yourself so hard, eat more and make everything worthwhile -
everyone is so busy
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sigh! busy...cum blind